can't we just buy and sell in harmony for goodness' sake?!

i recently listed a pair of dior sunglasses that i now have to relist. what a waste of time, honestly. i had a lot of persistant bidders and at last minute someone random jumps in & wins the auction.

she immediately sends me an email asking if she can send a cashiers check & that if she can't then she doesn't want the sunglasses. i said no. i wasn't rude about it at all, i just said that wouldn't work and should i give the last bidder a second chance offer for this item if she doesn't want it? she obviously is just on here to cause trouble. she starts making racial comments about 'white girls' and tells me she didn't want my glasses to begin with, starts cussing and saying how rude i was.  i report her as a non-paying bidder and she just deleted her account. now i'm sure she is out there, ready to bid on another item of MINE just because that is about how mental she was.

i can't believe the idiots i have run into on ebay. it's worse than in real life. so frustrating. i'm so reluctant to try again, selling something on here now, which really pisses me off.

he was obviously pissed off that it didn't sell for higher and then REFUSED to work with me at ALL! he wanted me to come pick it up (it was a very old boat) and then he wouldn't give me his address or any way of getting to it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i was so new to ebay though that i didn't know about the feedback thing, otherwise i would've given him a negative one back as well as replied above.