Say what you mean with a smile, please. Thank you!

What is biddy? What is charity? Your thoughts, here is mine aswe

I need to  make a statement here and  no it is not to cause trouble but  to just state my opinion.

What is a blog biddy? A title given to those who do follow of agree with certain parties.  I do not consider myself a blog biddy  and do not send a flurry of emails to anyone. I im with 2 people on a regular basis. And have emailed about 4  in the past month on personal matters. I am sorry but that is about all the time I have to give here. All other emails I sent were on questions  about items.

Now why won't I bid on a charity auction because it would be disrespectful  to the artist  the means of use would not be as intended.  People claim to be charitable here and for the most part they are. But  there are a couple who think  being charitable is about financial  means only. I  feel being charitable  is about words as well. When  you insult one's children (who have nothing to do with  anything that is OK, but allow another to make a comment and  well  let's just say it was not charitable).  When one post outright lies is that charitable! One can accuse innocent parties of "back alley dealing"  which was further  from the truth, really do you think I would get another  blogger to bid.  Is this charitable! Accusing others of shill, hiding information, hinting at dishonesty, insulting ones typing (oh by the way  look at your own before saying anything about others) and the best one is the 0 ids  that come to aid. You folks all flock to those degrading posts to which  one of your favorite bloggers  can not be big enough to say  what they feel under their regular IDs  so they act cowardly  and childish  and yes very uncharitable  to others but when they show up with real IDs you folks flock to them. Now is this charitable or honest!!!   All I get to say  is to look in the mirror all and see if charity starts in your heart, true we all waiver and get caught up in the minute but can  you step back before it goes to far and others are hurt beyond  returning ( who gave you the right who decides who is "allowed" here and who is not) as some have boasted.  It really is very simple  if you do not like go on, or if you know it was posted to hurt someone why respond. There is always going to be someone on the wrong side of someone.  But did it involve you, should you be posting there??? How would I feel  if I was named in the blog????  Just think about these questions next time you post an response. Charity  would maybe be a kind word truly spoken from the heart and one clearly thought out  in your mind.

Oh and yes I am looking forward to my next charity  auction and  can not wait  to see what it brings!!!! We shall see, we shall see.

Just my thoughts and take on things. Now if you choose to post a response feel free . aswe

aswegrow2
LOL nice response . aswe
May-20-07 08:40:39 PDT Report this comment
the_barefoot_cajun
morning aswe
have you gotten the two I sent??
about the above...i am learning to ignore it and work on me...it's all I can control. I do what I feel is right :o)
May-20-07 08:43:40 PDT Report this comment
spicy*peach
Morning! I look forward to your next auction too.
May-20-07 08:43:52 PDT Report this comment
isabellasworld
good Morning aswegrow! Hope you have a great day! :)
May-20-07 08:44:14 PDT Report this comment
spicy*peach
Let me know If you need some stuff to go in it.
May-20-07 08:44:20 PDT Report this comment
the_barefoot_cajun
dragon!! I see a dragon!!
I missed ya dragon!!
May-20-07 08:44:46 PDT Report this comment
aswegrow2
I thought your response was great notmywife because it showed how people perceive things different. I am sorry you deleted. that is what this post was to do. aswe
May-20-07 08:46:08 PDT Report this comment
heartusa
good morning aswe I have no idea whats going on, Im glad too!

The blogs can be a hugh asset and at times not, just as the people who create them.

Consider making positive contributions bloggers!

You have a great day!
Aimee
May-20-07 08:48:28 PDT Report this comment
9239kathryn
Gosh, I missed something again, but that is OK.

Go get em aswe! What do you need for yor next charity auction, I will send it ASAP, any thing in particular? I have many nice things. Kat
May-20-07 08:51:34 PDT Report this comment
aswegrow2
Thank you cajun yes it was recieved and thank you very much for making a point as to good people here. aswe

TY heart and dragon always can use more LOL thanks for your faith in me. aswe
May-20-07 08:51:56 PDT Report this comment
aswegrow2
I still have one of yours left Kat. ty again for your faith in me. aswe
May-20-07 08:52:38 PDT Report this comment
spicy*peach
Hey cajun!! How are ya??
May-20-07 08:52:50 PDT Report this comment
9239kathryn
Any time Lady! Just let me know. Kat
May-20-07 08:53:12 PDT Report this comment
aswegrow2
I am feeling much better and my repost this later. aswe
May-20-07 08:53:40 PDT Report this comment
9239kathryn
HI every one! Kat
May-20-07 08:53:57 PDT Report this comment
aswegrow2
TY kat I will I really think that I needed to not let anyone change the things I do and why I do them. aswe
May-20-07 08:54:58 PDT Report this comment
wendelrae
I enjoyed being part of the wildlife auction. You can always contact me to see if I have anything to add. I sometimes respond to negative blogs when I feel someone is being severely attacked, but often just watch so I understand what is happening.
May-20-07 08:59:59 PDT Report this comment
*dolphinmama1960*
Hello aswe... I always thought a biddy was a baby chick... which none of us are, lol!

I think it`s a great thing you do with all of your charity work :)
May-20-07 09:04:06 PDT Report this comment
aswegrow2
ty wendel and noelles you are the second one to say baby chick I never heard that before. And roger that none of are. LOL aswe
May-20-07 09:06:45 PDT Report this comment
r*u*fedup
get a clue lady
May-20-07 11:42:50 PDT Report this comment
aswegrow2
Just as I said another 0 hiding. See you state an opinion and they come out. This proves it, amazing true. All I was saying is there is charity in words also. Thank you r*u*fedup for proving my point. As we know certain people can not or will post so hence the zeros make appearances. aswe
May-20-07 12:00:03 PDT Report this comment
observations-of-life
Self appointed chairperson of the charity auctions and blog behavior.Aswe,you are so full of crap it stinks to high heaven.Isay that because you are a self proclaimed christian which makes me so happy that I am an athiest.I don't have to smooze with the likes of you.That may sound harsh but you give human kind a bad rap in every aspect.
May-20-07 13:16:43 PDT Report this comment
saenzmom
Aswe,

When you find the cajones to come clean and apologize to me for making accusations. I will stop posting to you. Calling my intentions of gifting an item to a blogger or having it listed as a charity auction. VERY RUDE

Secondly, if you are willing to bid on an ADULT mystery box--you are not a vestal virgin and know what is means. You humilated another blogger--and then somehow she posted a apology to you. Then you had her relist for charity--so you get even more attention.

WHY, did you not just let her give it to the bidder under you. I think it has something to do with the fact you have vendetta against wonderwomankim. (suspicison here--I have no proof)

WHY DONT YOU TELL THE WORLD WANT YOU WANTED ME TO DO FOR YOU--A parody on mule after the WWF?
That way you can be pulled into the light again for running another charity auction? I am begining to think that you seek the publicity and notarity from these blogs and post.

Again just my humble opinion!
Mal
May-20-07 13:33:22 PDT Report this comment
observations-of-life
Saenzmom.That is what I have been saying all along.Aswe uses the charties to be fulfilled.She seeks the attention that is plied upon her and cares not from where that attention comes.She loves to play victim and that is a learned behavior that she is in turn teaching her children whether she likes that or not.Children learn their attitudes and behaviors from their parents.Now she can use that idea of attacking her children again.Oscar Meyer-Bologna.
May-20-07 14:04:59 PDT Report this comment
ddskitty*s
no no aswe had just asked for me to list i thought it would be okay gosh guys that was totally my fault i had a bad day aswe was not mean at all in her post.i even reread it and i can see i had a tude right from the get go.please do not punish aswe for my tude.
dee
May-20-07 14:27:49 PDT Report this comment
r*u*fedup
quoted from above. "Thank you r*u*fedup for proving my point. As we know certain people can not or will post so hence the zeros make appearances. aswe"

? What exactly are you thanking me for? Is English your primary language? Maybe that would explain it!
May-20-07 18:26:16 PDT Report this comment

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