Fairy Kingdom

I made a mistake, yes, it's true.

This is a true story, which I'm sharing with you so you DO NOT make the same mistake.

Everyone on Ebay has a feedback rating.  Whether you're a buyer or a seller or both, your account is tied to feedback.  The rules have been changing recently.  Ebay has made the buyer experience top priority.  Without buyers none of us would make any money, so in that light I understand. 

I occasionally shop on Ebay, mostly just for the fun of it.  When I find an item I like, price, quality and customer service are things I look at before the purchase.  I read the terms of service, and make sure that I'm comfortable with the seller before I drop a dime!

Now here's where the story darkens.  As a seller, it has been difficult to determine the quality of buyers who shop with me.  I sell beautiful collectible items that grow in value.  People who shop and buy in my Ebay store are either collectors or someone looking for a gift for a collector.   The majority of the people who shop in my Ebay store, 98% or higher, are responsible, intelligent folks who just want to add beauty and fun into their lives with a quality item.

Here's where I made my mistake.  I have closed 2 retail stores in the past couple of years.  Within the inventory from these stores, there are an abundance of miscellaneous items that I list in my Ebay store once in a while.  In the listing I clearly state in the terms of service that the item is "Final Sale, No Returns."  Other sellers use the same terms.  I've purchased items under these terms and I know whatever comes I keep or sell back to someone else.  Simple, right?

This is where I made the mistake!  A customer purchased one of these items from me.  I had used a stock picture from the manufacturer in the listing.  I had sold several of the same item on Ebay in the past 2 years, all with positive feedback posted and happy customers.  This item was the LAST one.  It was sold for 50% of the retail value.  Another 20% was lost to listing fees and payment fees.  The customer took 3 weeks to pay and I did NOT file an unpaid item dispute because of the low price on the item, I just let it ride.

After the customer paid and the item was shipped I thought it was done.  I provided positive feedback, the only allowable option now.  I went on with life and then it got interesting.  The customer contacted me and said the item wasn't what was listed.  I checked the listing and responded it was exactly what was listed.  Then the customer compared the item to the picture and one word was different on the enscription, which no one had ever brought to my attention.

Now, here's the MISTAKE.  The customer wasn't happy.  I don't know why really, but it makes no difference.  Instead of just allowing the customer to return the item and providing a refund for the item, I choose to enforce the terms of service in the listing and say "No refunds, no returns."  In my mind at that moment, I said to myself "if I let this one do it, I'll have to do this all the time!"  The result was an unhappy customer, negative feedback posted and now time required to repair the damage to my overall standing as a quality Ebay seller.

I should have allowed the customer to return the item.  I should have said if you're not happy, I'm not happy.  I should have never questioned that the relationships I have with the buyers on Ebay are more important than one single item added back into my inventory.

I will continue to fine tune my listings to reflect the best options for my customers which allow me to offer best price and best service.  I'll also continue to list items for the best chance for me to make some money.  That's the object of this excersise, to make money.

If you sell on Ebay, please leave a comment here.  Whether it's your advice, your support or a policy that worked for you in this situation.  If you are a buyer on Ebay, please leave a comment with your experiences.  I really want to know where the balance is, providing quality items at a reasonable price with solid customer service.

Thanks for reading all this!
Bonnie, Diva in Charge
stevepushey
thats y i never leave FB til the customer does...
Jun-14-08 06:11:30 PDT Report this comment
rustybarb
I guess there's always a lot to learn, even for the most experienced. As a buyer, I understand the disappointment if something is not exactly what was expected, especially for a collector. That's the danger of stock pictures. If you collect something, one little word can make a huge difference. I understand the "no returns" policy, but when something is misrepresented - even because of an honest mistake by the seller - that's when common sense should win over policy. I'm sure the whole experience, and getting the negative wasn't worth the $4.95. Good luck.
Jun-14-08 06:17:54 PDT Report this comment
annamenter
I leave feedback when my customer pays me - always have and always will. If they are unhappy I will refund their money - no questions asked. So far this has worked for me. May tweak things if things change in the future. Time will tell.
Jun-14-08 06:18:46 PDT Report this comment
rustybarb
And....btw - very well written and honest post!
Jun-14-08 06:19:18 PDT Report this comment
annamenter
Yes it was a well written post. I had a couple of unusual things happen lately where I wondered about the customers honesty, but let it ride. Hopefully my buyers will be as good as in the past even with the new feedback policy. If you lose a few dollars over time it is all part of doing business. At least that is my way of looking at it.
Jun-14-08 06:27:01 PDT Report this comment
sweetchevyangel
Honestly I try to give buyers the benefit of doubt. However after 10 days of non-payment would've made me think different about this buyer intent to purchase. We all learn different lessons on here. I am know I am still learning. Best Wishes!
Jun-14-08 06:30:13 PDT Report this comment
goldlionvintage
I have a return policy, that allows for returns when I have made an error, I mean we are only human right? A few times, a customer will write me and say they really love something, but I missed something, lets say a small pen mark on it. I offer them a partial refund, just like a store would give you a discount for something that was damaged. Usually 10%, more depending on what the flaw is. I do this even if they have already left positive feedback. Its a great alternative to a full refund and it establishes/keeps your buyers trust in you.
Jun-14-08 06:31:23 PDT Report this comment
winchuckriverstore
I allow anything to be returned for any reason. I have only gotten maybe two returns ever. My take is that the customer is always right no matter what I think. I want to be around for a long time and don't want any drama going on. I take care of it and then think, "next". Immediately letting go of the angst of a "bad" customer.
Jun-14-08 06:51:57 PDT Report this comment
kat5741
Hi, just looking around here and saw this, I look at feed back before buying only if the feedback % is low, then i look at it to see what is going on, if it is the same complaint, then i don't buy. But if it's just crap like the one you got, i would feel safe buying from you. Your postive fb out weights this. And i think most people know you can not please every one all the time, and give the sellers and buyers the benefit of the doubt for a posting like the one you got.
Jun-14-08 07:16:15 PDT Report this comment
signrisegraphics
collecters are totally focused on their china doll, whoever she is she will still be whinging about that mis-spelled word when shes in the nursing home, dont worry about the war in Iraq or greenhouse emmisions my china doll wasnt right
Jun-14-08 18:55:34 PDT Report this comment

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