An eBay Lover's Observation...

Communication Schmoonication

Now, I am not trying to be rude here... but how difficult is contacting the seller!?! Really!
In light of the feedback changes, communication is key, now more than ever. Yet, a new eBay phenomenon has sprung.. Attack of the no-contact Neutral/Negative.

I answer all my emails within 24 hours, I ship all orders within 48 hours, I send out numerous emails giving the status of orders and instructions and plea's for people to contact me with any issues. I like to think I am doing a pretty good job with the communication issue, but it is hard to keep up with communication if the buyer does not attempt to tell me what is wrong when they leave a Neg/Neu.

I had a few buyers last month leave me negs or neus and not a single email was sent my way saying they were unhappy. One was unhappy with the expiry date received or the packaging was not up to par etc. all of which could have avoided by asking a question before buying and even still, a refund or replacement after buying would have further avoided unpleasant feedback. However, no such attempts were made even though they had to click all the little buttons that say "Yes, we contacted, we waited, we were patient and talked to the seller"

So, in my attempts to help even after the bad feedback was left, I contacted 2 of these buyers asking if I could be of any service, because regardless of the feedback, I still want a happy customer. Well, much to my surprise... they never responded. Why wouldn't you want to be helped if you were unhappy enough to leave a bad feedback!!
(And speaking of feedback, it is astounding how many buyers still don't realize that a Neutral counts as a Negative now! www.leavingfeedback.com)

So seriously... what is going on here? Why do 90% of the people that leave a perfectly avoidable negative or neutral never contact you first for a solution? If you buy something at Wal-mart or Cost-co and it is not up to par with your expectations... don't you let them know? Or do you simply trash talk them to all your friends? My guess is... Both!
But I digress.. my point is.. you still attempt to return it, you still tell them what is wrong and maybe they replace it for you or give you your money back.. Why does eBay have to be any different?

Thanks for reading my little Monday "I don't get it" speech!!

Have a great day fellow eBayers!

drivetolive12
Did you let e-bay know when they did this by go to the link about feedback?
I hear you about the feedback, and I as well will always contact the member and even put a letter of thanks in each parcel but some people will do it and nothing we can do or say will help..I think squard deal is even gone..
Jul-07-08 14:08:59 PDT Report this comment
nanasclothingandmore
I totally agree I am both a buyer and a seller and would always contact the seller first if I had a problem however not all sellers are real quick to respond either I am dealing with one right now and all I want to know is when my items shipped
Jul-07-08 14:10:55 PDT Report this comment
cellinkntoner
Yes, I have heard that Square Trade is not an option anymore because the new feedbacks can't be removed, also the sellers will have to remove the square trade logo soon, when eBay institutes it's new rule about have active content on your pages! No more email addresses, links or streaming video!
Jul-07-08 14:12:59 PDT Report this comment
cellinkntoner
Nana's: I always send a tracking number, but more often than not, it goes to a junk folder due to the buyers spam settings.. this also effects my communication! It's hard to let them know about their order when they block me! I am sorry to hear you having a problem! It is pretty darn frustrating isn't it!
Jul-07-08 14:14:24 PDT Report this comment
nanasclothingandmore
In all honesty I have had for the most part good experiences lucky I guess I always send shipping notification as well but it does get frustrating when you hear nothing from them and I always check my junk folder for that reason.
Jul-07-08 14:19:02 PDT Report this comment
drivetolive12
it is sad indeed and alot of seller are really getting tired of the crap..I sell and enjoy it alot but will quite when it starts to get on my nerves. Life is just tooo short to have to worry about such nonsence..I also have another job and do this for fun. good luck and hopefully e-bay will adjust before all the small sellers leave and it is just large companies.
Jul-07-08 14:19:28 PDT Report this comment
mybiggaragesale
Since sellers can no longer leave equal feedback, and buyers know this, they don't care. You don't see their faces, so they hide behind their usernames. They don't leave feedback anymore, unless they are also a seller. Ebay instituted a policy that if a seller does not receive enough feeedback (as a percentage of sales) within a certain period, it suspends them. I am mostly a seller, but buy my supplies and a few things on eBay. Several sellers have contacted me pleading for my feedback (I had not yet replied, because item had yet to be received). Ebay had suspended them because buyers were not leaving feedback at all. I was proactive, and sent emails to 75 buyes who had not left feedback -- ONE responded. BUYERS DON'T CARE, because they know you have no leverage. They either leave negative or nothing at all. FYI there are at least six other auction sites that charge little or nothing to list or sell - the problem is -- traffic, which eBay has.
Jul-11-08 17:22:24 PDT Report this comment

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