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Archive - September 2007

WHERE THE ROAD LEADS...

WHERE THE ROAD LEADS... Edit E-mail

Recently the road that my life has been on has prevented me from participatiing and joining in activities on the internet.  I have felt a loss as a result.  I have also discovered some things about myself and life as a result of my recent activities.

The road or path we follow to reach our goals are a choice we make. 

  • We can follow the path of least resistance,
  • we can follow anothers lead or suggestions, or
  • we can define our goals and find the shortest path or best path to reach them

Most of my life I have followed the path of least resistance or followed anothers lead, letting them make decisions for me. 

In recent years I have more clearly defined my goals in life and begun to follow the best path. 

Returning to driving semi over the road in the 48 states I have found that the best path is NOT always the shortest.   There are times when I can drive 50 miles farther and avoid a mountain with snow, or a city during rush hour traffic.

In life we can choose to avoid conflict and stress making our path in life a little longer, but more enjoyable. 

Decide where your personal path leads and what you are willing to pass through to get there. THEN start your engine and move forward to attaining your goals.

Toby Edmondson

This column is copywritted to goal oriented people, truck drivers who have lost their way and people who know how to disregard anyone's oppinion besides their own.  Forwarding or sharing this with anyone who is not a RE POOP LICAN or a DAM O CRAT or at least an Indigent thinker will result in pot holes, bridge contruction and icy roads to appear on your road in life.

A BONE TO CHEW ON....

A Bone To Chew On

    Many days I take an hour in the late morning, early afternoon to rest.
I lay down, sometimes actually go to sleep, but often as I am resting, if I
let my mind wander, I become agitated for one reason or another.

    On Thursday I had one such occurrence.  I set the alarm clock for one
hour, intending to let my mind rest and maybe even get a nap. Almost
immediately I began to think about an injustice that was done to a friend of
mine. My pulse increased, my breathing increased and I became upset.  While
there was nothing I could do about this injustice, I perseverated on it
until I became so lost in negative thinking I had to get up, forgetting
about getting any rest.

    It occurs to me that as I was just letting my mind wander, it fell upon
a subject that was likely to cause this effect.  If, however, upon laying
down for my rest, I had given focus to something pleasant, something
relaxing, I would have slowly drifted off to sleep.

    Cricket, our former pet and family member used to chew slippers, wooded
chair legs, socks and any of a number of other items when he was not
otherwise occupied.  We started giving Cricket frozen bones to chew so he
would leave other things alone.  He kept himself happily occupied chewing
those frozen bones for hours.

    Why the Cricket story?  The mind is much like Cricket.  If given focus,
the mind can take us to pleasant thoughts and a positive day.  Given no
focus or direction, the mind will lead us to places we may be better off not
going.

    As we go about our day, lets give our brain a positive bone to chew on.
By doing so, we will avoid the pitfalls that the mind can find on it's own
accord.  Focus on positive thoughts, chew on the bones you choose and then
bury a few of those positive bones for others to find along the path.
Keep on the path,

Toby Edmondson
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