No, caring for my home and writing in my spare time (snickering at 'spare') is far, far easier than either and more rewarding, says I. I have it very good as per my occupation and can readily admit this. I have my very own sunny-faced fanclub (our four children) and my rather handsome editor/PR department/boss/hubby with which to incite intelligent conversation. Funnily enough, there were some among my set growing up whom thought married life and children to be something of a curse; 'career ending' and 'stifling' I believe were the words.
My argument to that, considering the last 12, wonderful years of married life and the joys of motherhood can be summed up in a single non-word: pfft...
Even more amusing is that said complainers are now yet single and awfully lonely. A few still keep in touch and tell me every once in awhile how good I have it. These are the moments I smile and nod and seem to be very sympathetic, when in reality I wish to stamp my foot and have an I-told-you-so moment. Privately, I relay the conversation to my loving man and we smile and shake our heads at the irony of it all; and, yes I used the word 'irony' correctly there: 'The difference between what is real and what is imagined.'
Cheers!
Meredith Greene
Belator Books
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