Judy's Corner - Questions, Ideas, Whatever! From Gloucester, VA

In-between places -- jcarolek

I was looking at some of my pictures from my recent travels to CA.  I have spent time in the cities, at the beach, in the mountains and in all of those "in between" places...you know, the ones that are not your destination, but are the journey through which treasured memories are discovered.  And I was looking at the pictures I take around my own stopping grounds, here in VA.  Here too, I have the ocean, the cities and the mountains....and I live in one of those, "in between" places.

What struck me was the feeling of "home" I have experienced in my recent travels, and certainly, the greatest feeling of home comes from the people who welcome me as family, knowing I am three thousand miles from my home.  But there is another connection.  The simple country roads.  One of my friends snapped a photo as I was leaving in the rental car, heading to the airport, away from CA and back to VA, and it struck me that the road to their place is a simple dirt road, much like my own, certainly a little steeper, and a little longer, with more twists and turns, but familiar in its dusty, bumpy, sameness. 

Looking at the photos and and reflecting on the memories also brought to mind a couple of songs.  John Denver's Country Roads (Take me Home) was an obvious one that jumped out at me, but the Beatles' Long and Winding Road was also in my mind.  And in both songs, the message is about coming home, home to a place of comfort and familiarity. 

In my case, the country roads, long and winding, dusty and bumpy are reflective of my own travels through life and I know I like them better than the smooth tarmac of the super-highways.  It might take some time to get where I'm going, and I might have to dust myself off a time or two along the way, but I will experience the beauty that is so often overlooked, and I will be "at home" with people who also share my love of those "in between places."

"The long and winding road that leads to your door,
Will never disappear -- I've seen that road before..."


Leaving CA

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Home in VA

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From Sea
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To Shining Sea
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And all those in-between places.....
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nanasclothingandmore
great pics jcarol thanks for sharing
Jul-08-08 21:43:23 PDT Report this comment
jcarolek
Hey nana! Nice to see you.
Jul-08-08 21:46:36 PDT Report this comment
cjc_alaska
Hi Judy..
I see you've been traveling - me too.
I went back and read your last post about that
young man. Wonderful that it turned out well..
Sometimes younger people don't think they need
any help - its good you were there to help him
and that he was open to it..
You're a good person, thru and thru..
*hugs*
Jul-08-08 21:47:28 PDT Report this comment
jcarolek
Hey cj...so very nice to see you...it's been a long while!

I think that young man Mike was there for me as much as I was for him...it was one of those "moments" ... in many ways defying simple explanation, and yet clearly of importance.
Jul-08-08 21:49:33 PDT Report this comment
mixednut555
Beautiful. :)

Kat
Jul-08-08 21:58:57 PDT Report this comment
jcarolek
Hey Kat...how are you?

I'm home for a few days in a row now, which means lots of catch-up on chores around here...
Jul-08-08 22:06:39 PDT Report this comment
madcat1010
Nice pics, judy!
Jul-08-08 22:08:28 PDT Report this comment
jcarolek
Hey madcat! Thanks!
Jul-08-08 22:11:13 PDT Report this comment
mixednut555
Doing ok, Judy, busy contacting all the people that Harvard Medical pointed me towards. Spent the day at the beach today, it was lovely. I need to carry a camera with me. I'm a horrible photographer though, so maybe it doesn't matter. LOL

Hope you get a little rest in between travels. Be safe.

Kat
Jul-08-08 22:12:05 PDT Report this comment
jcarolek
Thanks Kat...I'm having fun with my camera, for sure! I guess I will HAVE to make it to Hawaii so I can get some spectacular pics...you guys have dirt roads there???
Jul-08-08 22:27:16 PDT Report this comment
mixednut555
Yep, we have dirt roads, you will love them.
Jul-09-08 01:27:20 PDT Report this comment
sweet_jalapena
LOL!!... you bring to mind another good one, judy:

"On the road again
Just can't wait to get on the road again
The life I love is makin' music with my friends
And I can't wait to get on the road again
On the road again
Goin' places that I've never been
Seein' things that I may never see again,
And I can't wait to get on the road again."

*: )
Jul-09-08 02:16:58 PDT Report this comment
jcarolek
Ah, yes, S_J...a very good one...and I'll be singing it all day, no doubt! Yep, ,aking music with my friends is key...and the road leads me there and them here...dusty, bumpy, comfy roads...
Jul-09-08 05:59:23 PDT Report this comment
jcarolek
Kat, I will, one day, drive the dirt roads of Hawaii...I just feel certain of that...hope you are there and we can meet when I do.
Jul-09-08 06:01:12 PDT Report this comment
sweet_jalapena
oh yeah... "aking" music is probably a pretty good descriptor then, huh?...

LOLOL!!!...
Jul-09-08 06:03:02 PDT Report this comment
sweet_jalapena
which part is generally the first to ake you?... *:
Jul-09-08 06:05:01 PDT Report this comment
jcarolek
LOL...S_J...it FIGURES! (oohhh, my aking back...head....shoulder...need I go on??? approaching 50 is all about "akes" and "panes!" LOL)
Jul-09-08 06:18:56 PDT Report this comment
mixednut555
:) I'll try to find some good dirt roads just for you. I know of one that ends at a lighthouse, you can't actually drive that road anymore though, you have to hike it. They did that to preserve the lighthouse, thinking if it wasn't easily accessible, not so many would go. Its not a long hike, but it is up a good hill. Very cool.
Jul-09-08 23:41:31 PDT Report this comment
jcarolek
Sounds like a beautiful choice, kat...I look forward to it!
Jul-10-08 05:07:11 PDT Report this comment
bengaltiger55
Try the road less traveled.... a lovely place.
Author lives nearby, he is right.
Reality and metaphorically.

Hope all your being losts are worth the comings home. Paraphrasing Diamond.

There is no such place as far away; R Bach.
Jul-10-08 11:53:10 PDT Report this comment
jcarolek
I like that bengal.
Jul-15-08 17:45:36 PDT Report this comment

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