IS THERE ANYTHING THAT COULD MAKE YOU CHEAT?

when they stop paying attention

Nov-25-07 14:36:26 PST Report this comment

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oh yes!!!! my grandad taught me how to cheat at poker at the age of 9 !

Nov-25-07 14:36:48 PST Report this comment

sandrasacre ( 634

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Cheat in what terms?

Nov-25-07 14:36:57 PST Report this comment

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pmsl!!!!!!!!!!!

Nov-25-07 14:37:07 PST Report this comment

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RELATIONSHIP WISE

Nov-25-07 14:38:13 PST Report this comment

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I don't necessarily think it is healthy, but it can sometimes make you realize what you actually have and that the grass isn't always greener.

Nov-25-07 14:38:17 PST Report this comment

kittybuzz ( 2448

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I always cheat at cards! lol x

Nov-25-07 14:38:47 PST Report this comment

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yeah...relationship wise..... the loser runs round the garden naked..... great pics of Lee in the nuddy!

Nov-25-07 14:39:12 PST Report this comment

metzymom ( 946

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There is never a reason to cheat in or on a relationship. Get Out, Get Thin, Get Busy!!!

Nov-25-07 14:39:21 PST Report this comment

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and I think people cheat because there is something lacking in their current relationship......

Nov-25-07 14:39:34 PST Report this comment

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not for sharing though!!!!!!!!!!

Nov-25-07 14:39:44 PST Report this comment

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Dragon - I posted the memory box.

Nov-25-07 14:39:58 PST Report this comment

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Cheating is never an option,never.

If you have a reason to need to Divorce,and the Bible says that is infideltiy (cheating0,then get your divorce and when it is final then you can be with someone else.

If I got started on the horrid affects of cheating,I would get kicked off of ebay.

Nov-25-07 14:40:08 PST Report this comment

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sweet, I'll check cpd.....

Nov-25-07 14:40:29 PST Report this comment

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TRUE G-DRAGON.... HAVE YOU DONE IT BEFORE?......BECAREFUL YOUR ANSWER MIGHT NOT BE HEALTHY LOL

Nov-25-07 14:40:35 PST Report this comment

kirsty.g1232007 ( 160

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hi one well id say if that avatar is you then cheating would definetly be healthy!!!lol!!!

Nov-25-07 14:40:46 PST Report this comment

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Ok here it is in nutshell,if you want to cheat,why hurt the partner your with.

End the relationship then go with another.

Nov-25-07 14:41:28 PST Report this comment

imagineart.541 ( 53

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only if your wife ,if running for pres.

Nov-25-07 14:41:31 PST Report this comment

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THAT HOW IT SUPPOSE 2 B DARLENE BUT THE WORLD IS DIFERENT IN 2007

Nov-25-07 14:41:40 PST Report this comment

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LOL @ KIRSTY

Nov-25-07 14:42:37 PST Report this comment

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One,God is the same,yesterday,today,and forever.

Please don't cheat.It is never worth it.

Nov-25-07 14:43:34 PST Report this comment

veruka_dolls ( 1740

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I guess if I were bored, or alone for fifteen minutes, say he'd taken a short nap...

hehee, I'm kidding, I'm kidding

Nov-25-07 14:43:42 PST Report this comment

kirsty.g1232007 ( 160

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well..................!!

Nov-25-07 14:43:43 PST Report this comment

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uuummm, onefour, I respectfully decline to answer that question. LOL

Nov-25-07 14:43:56 PST Report this comment

dawntiff090785 ( 900

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Never! I think if it gets to that point - It's over! Have the common curtosy to call it quits first!

Nov-25-07 14:44:53 PST Report this comment

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If you can't be with the one, love the one you're with.......

Nov-25-07 14:44:55 PST Report this comment

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Onefour,I hope you make a good wise choice.God Bless.

Nov-25-07 14:45:36 PST Report this comment

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TRUE DARLENE BUT TIME & MORALITY HAS AND I CANT SAY IM A ANGEL I DONT THINK ANYONE IS WE ALL MAKE MISTAKES WE JUST HAVE TO USE THEM AS GROWING PAINS PROSPER FROM THEM

Nov-25-07 14:46:36 PST Report this comment

dawntiff090785 ( 900

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The WORLD MAY BE different - but that does not give you the permission to be different -Do the right thing - 2007 means NOTHING eternally!

Nov-25-07 14:46:59 PST Report this comment

pretty_blue_eyes0 ( 3304

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im not married so its different but if married would never.

Nov-25-07 14:47:04 PST Report this comment

dawntiff090785 ( 900

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We all make mistakes - yes - but we should not plan them!

Nov-25-07 14:47:50 PST Report this comment

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Cheating is cowardice.
It takes courage to look someone in the eye and tell them the truth.

Nov-25-07 14:48:00 PST Report this comment

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Well, never say never because you end up eating those words.....

Nov-25-07 14:48:20 PST Report this comment

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MOST OF THE TIME THESE TYPE OF THINGS ARE NEVER PLANED U KNOW THAT MOST OF THE TIME IT JUST HAPPENS

Nov-25-07 14:49:16 PST Report this comment

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Love the old tired excuse, 'I don't want to hurt him/her', like it will hurt less to find out your spouse has been unfaithful...

whatever

Nov-25-07 14:50:12 PST Report this comment

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Only if I had lost all intelligence and sex was the only activity that my souless flesh had to take up the time of my meaningless life.

Mindless, but there are worse activities...

Nov-25-07 14:50:22 PST Report this comment

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I totally agree onefour. We are all human and mistakes are made if that is what they truly are. I am a firm believer that life is a learning experience, and it is ok to make mistakes as long as you learn from them......

Nov-25-07 14:50:44 PST Report this comment

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CHEATING HAPPENS MORE NOW THAN EVER G- DRAGON IS RIGHT NEVER SAY NEVER

Nov-25-07 14:50:46 PST Report this comment

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Or unless I wanted to give my partner an excuse to murder me.

Nov-25-07 14:51:24 PST Report this comment

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I think people cheat for reasons other than sex.......

Nov-25-07 14:51:27 PST Report this comment

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Or unless I just wanted to be a bad person who breaks oaths and pulls my pants down to God.

Nov-25-07 14:52:24 PST Report this comment

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Ok - was the question -
when and why should one cheat?

Or
is the act forgiveable?

Two different topics being discussed here.

Nov-25-07 14:52:51 PST Report this comment

imagineart.541 ( 53

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the rationalizing of bullshit ! cheat or not to cheat! thats the question. I vote not to cheat!

Nov-25-07 14:53:08 PST Report this comment

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DEFINITLY THERE WAY MORE TO LIFE THAN SEX IN A RELATIONSHIP..... (DID I JUST SAY THAT?)LOL

Nov-25-07 14:53:33 PST Report this comment

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you are right cpd, and I don't know if the act is forgivable or not. If you don't have trust you don't have anything......

Nov-25-07 14:53:54 PST Report this comment

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SHOUT TO IMAGINEART YOU GO GIRL

Nov-25-07 14:54:55 PST Report this comment

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I agree Dragon..
Many possibilities come into play.

Revenge.
Control.
Desperation.
Depression.
Loneliness.
etc...

Like I said, it takes a great deal of courage to say, "You suck, I'm leaving."

Nov-25-07 14:54:57 PST Report this comment

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Ive never cheated...dont plan on it. I think if you are driven to cheat, just have the dignity to leave the person.

Nov-25-07 14:55:21 PST Report this comment

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not rationalizing, just being realistic. It is easy to say, "Oh I would NEVER do that" but you know shit happens.

Nov-25-07 14:55:34 PST Report this comment

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Stupidity...

Nov-25-07 14:55:51 PST Report this comment

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THATS HOW ITS SUPPOSE TO BE POOLMAM BUT THATS EASYER SAID THAN DONE

Nov-25-07 14:56:44 PST Report this comment

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Yes stuff happens, but afterwards you should see that you were not happy to begin with. If you are TRULY in love you should have no desire to cheat and stuff would not just hapen.

Nov-25-07 14:57:17 PST Report this comment

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I completely agree with that last statement poolmam. You know, I'm not sure if I have ever TRULY been in love.......

Nov-25-07 14:58:07 PST Report this comment

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It is ridiculously hard to leave, especially once your lives are so intwined, living together, kids, house, etc...

Nov-25-07 14:58:21 PST Report this comment

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EXACTLY

Nov-25-07 14:59:03 PST Report this comment

muse_of_dreams ( 10

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All you have to do to answer that question is first ask yourself, "How would I feel if if I found out my lover was cheating on me?"

And then ask yourself if that is how you want your lover to feel?

Nov-25-07 14:59:27 PST Report this comment

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In love and love are different. You dont have to get butterflies every time you see them to know. I have been with my b/f for 2+ years, and I have never come even close to cheating. I have had fleeting crushes from time to time, but nothing I would ever act on. Just hormones really. :)

Nov-25-07 15:00:18 PST Report this comment

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Like I Said....

C O U R A G E to...

Start ones life over
Hurt someone you care for
Face the world as a failure at marriage (people often feel that way) to sum it up PRIDE
Face your children
Possibly have to change your standard of living financially

Nov-25-07 15:01:26 PST Report this comment

doggie_treats ( 28

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No, I think if someone cheats its because they are detached from the relationship and only afraid to commit to that person. They also do not have enough...guts or balls..to tell that person upfront that they are not interested in them any more...or they are sexaholics who have issues and need to see someone if they really want to change their life around.

I was cheated on by my ex husband, he was really missing out and very stupid to do such a lame thing, and that is something you can never forgive or forget. Think about how it will hurt your significant other...before it's too late..because that relationship I guarantee you will NOT last.

Nov-25-07 15:01:27 PST Report this comment

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