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Most Recent Posts Posted Jun-02-08 01:57:30 PDT Updated Jun-02-08 01:58:23 PDT The Way
there is a way that runs through the entire universe. it is the way of peace. if we follow the way, we will live happy lives. it may or may not be the path of worldy success, but happiness, being content, and peace are preferrable.
there is nothing that controls this world. this world exists, but it does not follow a set path. we control our fate. we follow the way if we choose.
the way is very easy. it is a straight and narrow path through a world full of obstacles and hindurances. bryars and thorns representing this in Pilgrim's Progress. the difficulty we make for ourselves, getting sidetracked and stepping off the path. we cannot see the path. we only have faith it is there, and if we follow, we will stay on the path.
for me, the way is a path of kindness. if i treat people with kindness, i will always be happy.
if you believe that the path is there, and that travelling it gives you happiness on your journey, then all you have to do is let it carry you.
people speak bad of the path of least resistance, but the way is not far from this. you do not have to struggle in life, and you do not have to let the world around you control your emotions. Posted Sep-10-07 11:27:48 PDT
People are like stained-glass windows. They sparkle and shine when the sun is out, but when the darkness sets in, their true beauty is revealed only if there is a light from within
-Elizabeth Kubler-Ross
How clean are your windows? Can a person clearly see through your windows, or are your windows dirty and streaked, just clean enough to let some light in, however dirty enough to where a person can not clearly see through them? Maybe you can’t even tell, because you have heavy drapes covering the windows so you won’t be reminded of how dirty they are and how much they need to be cleaned.
The problem with windows which can’t be seen through is that we shut out much of the good and we also obscure the light which emanates from within. Of course the windows that I speak of are a metaphor for the windows to your soul.
Many people have allowed the windows to their soul to become dirty to the point where other people cannot see who they really are. Many people fear that if the rest of the world could see who they really are, that they would not be accepted, that they might even be cast out from their social circle. This fear may be harbored because we are ashamed of who we are, we do not really like who we are and are afraid that if other people really knew who we are that they would not like us much either. We may have done something that we are not so proud of and we have not yet forgiven ourselves. We may in fact love who we are, yet our ego, still wants to be accepted and fears what may happen if we really let our true self show.
The problem with dirty windows or draped windows is that they block the sunshine and moonlight from coming in and worse yet is they block the wonderful light of our spirit from shining through.
The key is to clean our personal windows and let the positive light of the Universe in as well as to let the beautiful, positive, loving light of our soul shine through for others to see and benefit from.
When we clean our windows at home we grab some window cleaner and a rag and go to work. Cleaning our personal windows takes work to, the ingredients for this window cleaner our a generous amount of self forgiveness, a heaping mound of gratitude and most importantly and endless stream of unconditional love for our self. By the way, the rag you need for this job is “awareness”. It is amazing how much “awareness” will clean!
So, time to get busy, pull down those heavy drapes that you have been hiding behind, and go to work on cleaning your windows. You will be amazed at how wonderful it is to the let the light in and how lifted you will feel by allowing the rest of the world to bask in the light of who you truly are. I am also willing to bet, that most people will love the opportunity to know the real you! You are a pure and wondrous light of love, let your light shine! Today is your day to sparkle!
You are so very blessed!
You are so very loved! Posted Sep-03-07 13:01:24 PDT "How you see your self is how you will treat yourself"
If you think that you are a second rate person then you will behave in a second rate manner, and worse you will accept second rate treatment. You know, in this world there are no unimportant people, there are only people who see themselves as unimportant and therefore allow themselves to be treated that way.
Our interpretation of our circumstances and our tolerance of them stems from the image we have of ourselves. So many times we don't believe that we deserve better, that this is our lot in life. Don't under-rate yourself there is no excuse for a person who runs himself down. No one respects a people who have no respect for themselves.
Become your own support system - don't rely on external influences they are at best only temporary. Get your mind working for you instead of against you. Use positive affirmations as a constant connection to the person you want to be.
Keep in mind the picture of what you want not what you fear. Frame all your statements in the positive for example, never say "I don't want to fail" always say "I want to succeed" Learn to ask for what you want and not to not get what you don't want.
Check your self talk, cut out negative self talk and build in positive daily conditioning, make loving yourself a habit. Tell yourself constantly, "I am a wonderful person and I love and respect myself therefore I will only do or say things that will support my image of myself."
Self love is not arrogance, it is not vanity, it is merely a true awareness of the miracle that is you. It is showing gratitude for the greatest gift of all, the gift of life.
How you see yourself is how you will treat yourself, so build a positive, empowering picture of yourself and then make sure that your behaviour is consistent with your new image. You become the role you play, so learn to affirm what you want, not what you don't want.
It's not so much a question of whether you can change your self image but whether you will! But remember this "How you see your self is how you will treat yourself" Posted Aug-31-07 11:46:50 PDT Updated Aug-31-07 11:49:39 PDT P'u:
In Taoism P'u, meaning simplicity, is a central theme of the teachings of Lao Tzu. Its ideogram consists of the characters for tree and dense growth, thus a tree in a thicket, thus things in their natural state. The concept here is that there is power in things in their natural, simple, plain, honest state that can be lost if the thing's simplicity is tampered with. Thus, to be simple and childlike is highly desirable.
The term P'u refers to “The Uncarved Block.” P'u is a natural power that all things possess when in their natural states. The more simple the better. A beautiful tree in the middle of the forest has much more natural power than a tree in the middle of a city, or a tree that has been made into a dining room table.
- Benjamin Hoff, author of The Tao of Pooh”, explains, “The essence of the principle of the uncarved block is that things in their original simplicity contain their own natural power, power that is easily spoiled and lost when that simplicity is changed.” This basic Taoist principle, Hoff explains further, applies not only to things in their natural beauty and function, but to people as well.
Posted Aug-31-07 11:33:56 PDT Updated Aug-31-07 11:48:55 PDT Te: Taoism, an ancient Chinese system of thought, views the Universe as an interconnected, organic whole. Nothing exists separately from anything else. The Universe is governed by a set of natural and unalterable laws which manifest themselves as a flow of continuous change. This natural order and flow is referred to as the Tao, or the Way. By recognizing and aligning ourselves with these laws, humans can attain a state of being which combines the experience of total freedom with one of complete connectedness to life's processes - being at one with the Tao.
To help gain this level of existence, Taoist writings offer us various principles to be followed in the course of everyday living. Understanding and adopting these values presents the opportunity to become whole and complete, to consciously become an inseparable part of life's flow.
A central concept in Taoist thought is that of te, or virtue. This word appears in the title of the famous work by the legendary sage, Lao Tzu, the Tao Te Ching - The Power of the Way. Though virtue is the literal translation of te, the word is used in Taoist literature to indicate power or strength (as the Latin root, virtus, indicates). Te refers to the fact that all things contain an inherent power or strength that comes from their own essential being or true inner nature. This power derives from the fact that our true self is an expression of the Tao, because it is intrinsically connected with the power of the Universe. However, the idea of te is that of power exercised without the use of force and without inappropriate interference in the existing order of things.
In our modern society much attention is devoted to promoting self-awareness: “finding ourselves,” “knowing who we truly are.” Many traditions, including certain schools of Western psychology, regard this discovery and acceptance of self as central to personal well-being, an important step on the path of individual transformation. It also is the belief of certain social thinkers and activists that, without a high degree of individual self-awareness and responsibility, it will remain impossible to resolve the many social and environmental problems currently facing mankind.
What guidelines does Taoism offer in this area? How can we manifest our te, know our true selves in a manner that connects us with the rest of our world?
Our conventional Western outlook is based on the assumption that humans are all separate entities, existing apart from each other and from the surrounding environment. Te, on the other hand, implies a trust and belief in oneâ€TMs own inner nature and in the interconnectedness of all life.
Lao Tzu writes that “All things arise from Tao. They are nourished by Virtue [their own inner nature]. Virtue is goodness [and] is faithfulness.”
As a first step, we are asked to believe in ourselves, in our own inherent goodness, in the process that is Tao. “The great Tao flows everywhere. It nourishes the ten thousand things. It holds nothing back,” Lao Tzu states, encouraging us not to give in to our doubts and fears.
As a means of developing this trust and belief in the Tao and expressing our inner nature, Lao Tzu counsels us to move beyond conventional values, those social mores and norms which tend to strengthen our view of ourselves as separate egos or selves and which are rooted in doubt and fear. These values only serve to lock us in our sense of separation and rob us of the power of our true being.
The sage tells us: Accept disgrace willingly. Accept being unimportant. Do not be concerned with loss or gain. Love the world as you love your own self. Then you can truly care for all things.
To help manifest our te, Lao Tzu gives us his “three treasures” which assist us in developing our perception of the unity of life and in cultivating a way of being that is harmonious with the Tao. The first treasure is compassion, the second is frugality or balance, and the third is humility, “daring not to be ahead of others.”
We must feel and experience our connection with all of humanity, all of life. In this way we are able to respond to various situations in an appropriate, helpful manner, serving the higher good. This is compassion. Practicing frugality works to preserve the delicate balance that exists in life and harmonizes our actions with those of the Universe. The Tao will nourish us if we make wise use of its resources. And adopting an attitude of humility allows us to be guided by the creative forces of the Tao and orients our actions towards service to all mankind and the Universe as a whole.
In this way our te emerges. More and more we find our actions truly expressing our inner nature. More and more they are in harmony with the Tao. As our te manifests we experience ourselves as an integral part of our environment, moving effortlessly and naturally along life's path.
Posted Aug-30-07 08:50:56 PDT Updated Aug-30-07 09:43:05 PDT Wu Wei:
Huston Smith describes wu wei as “creative quietude” and “pure effectiveness”, which he describes as the most efficient and natural way of acting. The person of wu wei operates in the naturalness, suppleness, and spontaneity of the flow of Tao, not forcing, not self-consciously “achieving” things. It can also be translated as “not doing” or “do-nothingness”, yet is the supreme activity, arising naturally when the deepest levels of the self are in tune with Tao.
Eternal Tao doesn't do anything, yet it leaves nothing undone. If you abide by it, everything in existence will transform itself. When, in the process of self-transformation, desires are aroused, calm them with nameless simplicity. When desires are dissolved in the primordial presence, peace and harmony naturally occur, and the world orders itself.
[Tao Te Ching 37]
The soft overcomes the hard in the world as a gentle rider controls a galloping horse. That without substance can penetrate where there is no space. By these I know the benefit of nonaction [wu wei]. Teaching without words, working without actions– nothing in the world can compare to them.
[Tao Te Ching 43]
In the pursuit of learning, every day something is added. In the pursuit of Tao, every day something is dropped. Less and less is done until one arrives at nonaction [wu wei]. When nothing is done, nothing is left undone. The world is won by letting things take their own course. If you still have ambitions, it's out of your reach.
[Tao Te Ching 48]
The great Tao flows everywhere, both to the left and to the right. It loves and nourishes all things, but does not lord it over them, and when good things are accomplished, it lays no claim to them. The Tao having done everything, always escapes and is not around to receive any thanks or acknowledgement. Like water, the Tao always seeks the lowest level, which man abhors. It does not show greatness and is therefore truly great.
[Tao Te Ching 34]
Much of the essence of Tao lies in the art of wu wei (action through inaction: taking no-action is, in itself, an action). However, this does not mean “sit doing nothing and wait for everything to fall into your lap”.
It describes a practice of accomplishing things through proper action by knowing when to and when not to act according to one's personal capabilities/limitations and desires, as well as knowing one's place in the overall scheme of things (Tao). For one who has embraced this mindset, accomplishing goals becomes seemingly effortless. An individual who has mastered the art of wu wei is said to have reached a state of “tzu-jan”, which may be roughly translated as “harmony with nature”.
Wu Wei works once we understand our true desires and capabilities in their proper (natural) context, as opposed to those we adopt for various superficial reasons. In other words, by trusting our nature rather than our mental contrivances, we can find contentment without a life of constant striving against forces, real and imagined. Wu Wei has been metaphorically described as flowing down the river of Tao, while maintaining the ability to steer correctly. However, one of the lesser addressed principles of wu wei in western descriptions of Taoist philosophy is that of “non-interference”. The Taoist strives not to interfere in the paths of others, nor to allow others to interfere in his or her own. Therefore, actions are not taken that are not aligned with Tao.
( Wu Wei means “Do nothing,” and Wei Wu Wei means “do without doing.” Taoists believe that things happen on their own (Tzu Jan). We don't need to meddle with processes or even really “try.” We will see how you can use the Wei Wu Wei to help you deal with events in your life. ) Posted Aug-30-07 01:53:52 PDT Three Treasures of the Tao:
The Three Jewels (or Treasures) of the Tao are: compassion, simplicity, and patience. Alternate translations render them as Love, Moderation, Humility. They are derived from the following from the Tao Te Ching:
“I have just three things to teach: simplicity, patience, compassion.
These three are your greatest treasures.
Simple in actions and in thoughts,
you return to the source of being.
Patient with both friends and enemies,
you accord with the way things are.
Compassionate toward yourself,
you reconcile all beings in the world”
(Chapter 67,68,69) In the Taoist view, simplicity and patience go hand in hand with compassion.
Simplicity is extremely important in Taoist philiosophy in that complex actions generally are destructive and can upset the natural balance of the universe by imparting too much intellectual yang structure into a person's actions. Acting in simplicity allows for one to lead a more harmonious life without having to deal with complex social constructs that can arise from living in that complexity. The more simplistic an action, the truer that action can be from that individual.
Patience is also key in Taoism in that the lack of patience is caused by wants, of which those that are frivolous are considered unhealthy and again upset a natural balance, such as greed versus a general populace. To have patience is to act by inaction. By this, less action against nature is required to attain one's goals and objectives.
Compassion, as aforementioned, goes hand in hand with simplicity and patience. Love, as an alternative translation to compassion, is simplistic in itself and often requires much patience with that which one has compassion for.
A key Taoist belief is that all things stem from the same source, this being the Tao itself. As such, to have compassion for all is akin to having compassion for yourself, your loved ones, as well as the earth and/or universe itself. Therefore, these “Jewels of the Tao” have become major tenets to grasping that which Lao Tzu (Laozi) claimed to be impossible to understand for it to be the truth. Posted Aug-29-07 09:18:16 PDT Updated Aug-30-07 10:17:01 PDT Tao (pronounced ”Dow”) can be roughly translated into English as path, or the way. It is basically indefinable. It has to be experienced. It ”refers to a power which envelops, surrounds and flows through all things, living and non-living. The Tao regulates natural processes and nourishes balance in the Universe. It embodies the harmony of opposites (i.e. there would be no love without hate, no light without dark, no male without female.)”
It is a universal principle that underlies everything from the creation of galaxies to the interaction of human beings.
The workings of Tao are vast and often beyond human logic. In order to understand Tao, reasoning alone will not suffice. One must also apply intuition. In My study of Tao, my source material is Tao Te Ching (pronounced “Dao De Jing”) by the ancient sage Laozi, a.k.a. Lao Tzu.
The most ancient system of knowledge recorded on earth ( possibly 4,000 yrs old ) –preceding even the traditions of Mesopotamia, Ancient Egypt, India, Greece, and so forth. The Ancient Taoists developed a complete, detailed, and scientific system of knowledge which comprises many principles of food preparation, exercise, healing, sexology, etc.
Some of Lao Tzu's most significant teachings are as follows:
- Non-contention. Lao Tzu noted that violence and conflict, no matter how tightly controlled, could not help but cause negative side effects. The Taoist ideal is to solve problems through peaceful means.
- Non-action. The foolish expend a great deal of energy and time trying to do everything and end up achieving nothing. On the other end of the spectrum, the truly wise don't seem to do much at all and yet achieve whatever they want. This magic is possible, indeed unavoidable, when one is in tune with the Tao.
- Non-intention. So often we perform virtuous deeds hoping to receive praise or recognition. That's no virtue at all. True virtue is a state where such actions flow forth naturally, requiring no conscious effort or thought.
- Simplicity. The basis for our reality and our existence is elemental and uncomplicated. Human beings create a lot of trouble for themselves by making everything more complex than they need to be. If we learn to simplify our lives, we can experience a profound satisfaction that is infinitely more meaningful than the rewards of the material world.
- Wisdom. Logic has its place in human affairs but isn't everything. There is a limit to what we can understand through rationality and reasoning. To transcend that limit, we need to engage our intuition fully. This is the key to insights as opposed to knowledge, and the difference between living the Tao and reading all about it.
- Humility. The more you learn, the more you realize there's still so much more to learn. This tends to make you humble. Arrogance and egotism come from ignorance - knowing a little bit and assuming you know a lot.
- Duality. Lao Tzu pointed out that all qualities in the world possess meaning only by the existence of their opposites. Something can only be big if there is something else that is small by comparison. “Good” exists in the world so long as “evil” exists as well. One cannot do without the other.
Taoism certainly has a philosophical aspect, which can be compatible with other religions. Many Christians, for instance, freely explore the concepts of Taoism and add whatever they think is useful to their own beliefs. The idea is to explore and learn the correct way or the better way to live and to conduct our personal affairs by understanding some of the principles that govern our lives.
“In a nutshell, Taoism is the consolidation of a number of concepts and practices that make up the “Path”, or “Way”, of living. The consolidation of ideas and concepts include basic principles or “theories” regarding the body, diet, breathing and physical exercises, uses of herbs, philosophical inquiry and, of course, meditation. All of which the Taoist feels brings a human being into closer alignment with the “natural order” of life and living - a pathway that humankind appears to have gotten derailed from.”
That's a pretty complete definition. But it lacks the poetry inherent in Taoism. Let's quote straight from the source, Lao-Tze's the Tao Te Ching.
“The Tao that can be named is not the eternal Tao. The Name that can be named is not the eternal name. The nameless is the beginning of Heaven and Earth. the named is the mother of all things.”
Tao is a force. It's not a God, it's not some sentient being controlling the universe. It just IS. It's everywhere, all at once. It flows through the entire world, and we're all affected by it, even if we don't realize it. Here's an example of someone experiencing Tao.
A Boy throws a baseball into the air. The baseball comes down and smaks said boy in the forehead.
That's Tao right there. Tao is everything that's natural, all the laws of physics, the laws of science, the nature of the world. It affects every squirrel, every raccoon, every person. In other words, Tao is the world and the way it works.
Taoist concepts, beliefs and practices:
- Tao is the first-cause of the universe. It is a force that flows through all life.
- “The Tao surrounds everyone and therefore everyone must listen to find enlightenment.“
- Each believer's goal is to harmonize themselves with the Tao.
- Time is cyclical, not linear as in Western thinking.
- Taoists strongly promote health and vitality.
- Five main organs and orifices of the body correspond to the five parts of the sky: water, fire, wood, metal and earth.
- Each person must nurture the Ch'i (air, breath) that has been given to them.
- Development of virtue is one's chief task. The Three Jewels to be sought are compassion, moderation and humility.
- Taoists follow the art of ”wu wei,” which is to let nature take its course. For example, one should allow a river to flow towards the sea unimpeded; do not erect a dam which would interfere with its natural flow.
- One should plan in advance and consider carefully each action before making it.
- A Taoists is kind to other individuals, in part because such an action tends to be reciprocated.
- Taoists believe that ”people are compassionate by nature…left to their own devices [they] will show this compassion without expecting a reward.”
- The Tao caused the creation of the universe.
- The Tao is the energy that flows through all life.
- The Tao surrounds everyone in the form of nature.
- Everyone must observe and reflect on nature to find enlightenment.
- An adherent's goal is to become one with the Tao.
- Everything is of the one Tao.
- Everything is cyclical.
- Each person must nurture the Tao or 3 bodily energies (Jing, Chi, Shen) through activities such as exercise and meditation.
- One should be prudent and think before acting.
- People are inherently good.
- Follow the art of wu wei: let nature take its course.
Posted Aug-28-07 11:31:05 PDT Updated Aug-30-07 10:15:05 PDT Delight in Living

If we take time to watch animals, we see that they have a zest for life that seems to engage them totally in whatever they are doing. A cat chasing its tail, a dog going after a ball, a horse running along the shore, a dolphin leaping and diving -- all are actions that reveal energy and delight in simply being alive.
Life, we say, is to be enjoyed, but how many of us manage to put this theory into practice? We often associate pleasure with guilt or with acting out or with hurting or being hurt, and so we stand back from the full enjoyment of our power to be really alive.
Letting go of our shame and feelings of unworthiness will help us to let go and live. If we can tap into the spontaneity that runs through the animal kingdom, we will rediscover the sheer joy of being alive.
I'll try to take time to watch animals at play and learn from their vitality and enjoyment.
Posted Aug-28-07 09:32:50 PDT

Look at everything
as though you were
seeing it for the first time
or the last time.
Then your time on earth
will be filled with glory.
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