Everyone knows at least one lazy person. I can't say I HATE lazy people but they bother me. Laziness is just a lack of self motivation and if you lack self motivation you tend to get screwed in life. Some lazy people will wait for you to start a firecracker under their butt to get something done. However, it is not our job to do this. We can not motivate a lazy person.

My mom's boyfriend is lazy. He is the Grand Master. I have NEVER, EVER, met anyone lazier. To give him some credit, he does work. He drives a truck around leading big rigs with lots of stuff on them to their destination. But he's lazy. The restaurant he eats at his across the street and he has to drive there. He can not turn on the microwave oven by himself. Yesterday, his son called and he was sitting on the kitchen chair. My mom got up and answered the phone and said 'it's your son. Do you want to talk to him?'. He said 'just tell him I'll be over there in a bit..blahblahblah'..My mom put the phone down and said to him 'You talk to him yourself'..so instead of getting up and going over to the phone, he yells out..'HEY SPARKY! I'll be over there in a little bit!'..hahahaha was kinda funny actually.

So fill this in..

My ____ is so lazy, ____________________________________.

Why? Why not.

hey hey, good morning all :) happy Saturday!!! (mine anyway)

I'm sure most of you have heard about the guy in Texas who shot the burglars at his neighbors house. They were outside and he called 9-1-1. Told the operator 'one is gettin' away!' He also told the operator he was going to kill them. And he did. Shot them in the back. Dead. Some are calling this guy a vigilante. Some are calling this guy a cold blooded racist murderer. Hmmmm.

I'm glad I wasn't living in the area. I may have borrowed a cup of sugar from this neighbor and ole gun totin' Tom may have not liked that idea and took aim at me. Of course, being Texas, I myself would carry a gun and then we could have ourselves a bullet party! WEEEEEEEEEEEeeeeee!

And then again, he's a nice guy looking out for that neighbor isn't he?

Here's the situation...The woman is in the house with the man friend while the hubby is outside talking with other friends. Woman and man friend are just chatting. Subject turns to trust and woman says husband trusts his man friend. Man friend says he would NEVER try anything and of course hubby should trust him. Then out of the blue, man friend says 'you do like me though don't you? Do you think about me?'...Woman is like WTF? Woman responds 'WHAT kind of question is THAT and no I don't!'..Man friend (he's drunk) apologizes. "I'm sorry, I'm sorry'...then without hestation says it again, 'but you DO think about me don't you?'. Woman responds with 'you just apologized and then asked me again'. He says he's sorry again and woman goes outside.

Question: Should woman tell husband?

Question: Does hubby want to know?

Question: Should being drunk be an excuse?

GOOD MORNING!!!!! :)

My daughter wants me to teach her to drive when she gets back from California. She'll be 16 and I said 'yaya ok'...She'll definitely be taught to drive when she gets back. I just didn't tell her the EXACT time. :) I don't think she's ready. I personally IMO, don't think any teen who is 16 is ready for a permit. I think this law needs to be changed and the drivers permit age should be 18. Oh, I can hear some people already...how they gonna get to work..wawawa..PUBLIC TRANSPORTATION! Remember that????

Let me explain why I think my daughter isn't ready for a permit. It's one reason. She can not put her cell phone down for 5 minutes. She has to look on her phone to see who has texted her. Drives me crazy.

IF the age stays at 16 (or 15), then there should be a clause that NO TEEN can use a cell phone while driving. Not just teens either but I'm just talking about them right now. They ARE good for emergencies.

But come on! My teen does not need to see who is texting her while she is merging onto a freeway. It's a distraction.

She still calls me mommy sometimes. Cute ya but not very adult. She has trouble with what little responsibility I give her let alone put her behind the wheel.

Maybe I'm a big ole meanie. SO WHAT! Raspberry tongue.

So what's your view on this? anyone?

GOOD MORNING AND HAPPY FRIDAY!!!!!!!!! WOOWOOWOOOO ohohoh ant on my leg ant on my leg

This is a continuation of the last post. I personally think it's a good subject as alot of us have kids.

I clean my daughters room. Alot. She's used to it now. I give her a couple of days to clean it and then I go in there and do a sweep. I find things. Mostly letters to me! I know she writes them when she's pissed off or upset. She talks about how I invade her privacy. How I don't trust her, etc.

Snooping for lack of a better word is a good thing for parents to do. It is our obligation to make sure where,what,who,when and why with our kids. Look at what they have to deal with! I learn alot about my daughter when I clean her room and I will continue to clean her room. I learn that she thought she was going on a date one Friday night but that night I just happened to tell her to stay home. She actually wasn't even upset. I learned alot of her friends have eating disorders AND I learned that she too was heading down that path.

When my son was younger, maybe 10 or so, I learned that he would watch his sister and her friends in her room. I learned he started smoking.

We have to nip these things in the BUTT! or bud! yaya bud! My mom snooped around my room. My grandma probably snooped around my moms room. And I'm sure most of you agree that  this is our right. Now, if I wrote this blog in 'my space'..oh god, I'd be getting some blasting.

btw, good morning!

I admit it. Shame on me. I don't know if its curiousity or just making sure she's on the right track. Dr. Phil says it's ok so I'm going with that. Is it a parental right? Is it ok to snoop in drawers, read their text messages, check them out at the mall, etc..

I will not listen in on my daughters phone conversations. Well, in all honesty, I do hear her talking. Just not the other side and I won't pick up the phone to eavesdrop. Thats bad. Snooping around her drawers? I've done that a couple of times. But it's not because I'm nosey. It's to make sure she's 'ok'. Does that make sense? We gotta keep our kids on track. Too much crap is out there and influences???? Lots of influences out there!

No. I do not want her snooping in my room. Finding some of the things she'd find in there, she'd die of embarressment! lol...

So, is it justifiable? Do dads do this?

Oh, I found a rubber in her backpack once cuz I was cleaning it out becuase she never did. She swore up and down it was 'her friends'. Uh huh....I told her it was NOT a good idea to keep a 'friends' rubber and at least her 'friend' was playing it safe. hmmmm

step on a crack, break your mama's back..

step on a line..break your mama's bine?

Have I been saying it wrong for 40 years?

What's..ooooooooooooh OMG i JUST GOT IT!!!!!

its SPINE!!!

derrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

WOW! my head is so clear now!

Has anyone heard from him? He's popular here and I know people get concerned when someone who is as popular as he doesn't 'check-in' with blogland. I've tried signing into his guestbook this morning but of course, guestbook isn't working cuz I can't see a 'submit' button.

PRINCE~!!!! you ok?

I know there's three leaders. Tried them all. They all cost. And that guy singing f-r-e-e-that spells free...creditreport.com baby...

it's not free either.

Isn't there someplace I can get a free credit report without having to give out a credit card number or being enrolled in something I have to cancel?