Here's the situation...The woman is in the house with the man friend while the hubby is outside talking with other friends. Woman and man friend are just chatting. Subject turns to trust and woman says husband trusts his man friend. Man friend says he would NEVER try anything and of course hubby should trust him. Then out of the blue, man friend says 'you do like me though don't you? Do you think about me?'...Woman is like WTF? Woman responds 'WHAT kind of question is THAT and no I don't!'..Man friend (he's drunk) apologizes. "I'm sorry, I'm sorry'...then without hestation says it again, 'but you DO think about me don't you?'. Woman responds with 'you just apologized and then asked me again'. He says he's sorry again and woman goes outside.

Question: Should woman tell husband?

Question: Does hubby want to know?

Question: Should being drunk be an excuse?

GOOD MORNING!!!!! :)

My daughter wants me to teach her to drive when she gets back from California. She'll be 16 and I said 'yaya ok'...She'll definitely be taught to drive when she gets back. I just didn't tell her the EXACT time. :) I don't think she's ready. I personally IMO, don't think any teen who is 16 is ready for a permit. I think this law needs to be changed and the drivers permit age should be 18. Oh, I can hear some people already...how they gonna get to work..wawawa..PUBLIC TRANSPORTATION! Remember that????

Let me explain why I think my daughter isn't ready for a permit. It's one reason. She can not put her cell phone down for 5 minutes. She has to look on her phone to see who has texted her. Drives me crazy.

IF the age stays at 16 (or 15), then there should be a clause that NO TEEN can use a cell phone while driving. Not just teens either but I'm just talking about them right now. They ARE good for emergencies.

But come on! My teen does not need to see who is texting her while she is merging onto a freeway. It's a distraction.

She still calls me mommy sometimes. Cute ya but not very adult. She has trouble with what little responsibility I give her let alone put her behind the wheel.

Maybe I'm a big ole meanie. SO WHAT! Raspberry tongue.

So what's your view on this? anyone?

GOOD MORNING AND HAPPY FRIDAY!!!!!!!!! WOOWOOWOOOO ohohoh ant on my leg ant on my leg

This is a continuation of the last post. I personally think it's a good subject as alot of us have kids.

I clean my daughters room. Alot. She's used to it now. I give her a couple of days to clean it and then I go in there and do a sweep. I find things. Mostly letters to me! I know she writes them when she's pissed off or upset. She talks about how I invade her privacy. How I don't trust her, etc.

Snooping for lack of a better word is a good thing for parents to do. It is our obligation to make sure where,what,who,when and why with our kids. Look at what they have to deal with! I learn alot about my daughter when I clean her room and I will continue to clean her room. I learn that she thought she was going on a date one Friday night but that night I just happened to tell her to stay home. She actually wasn't even upset. I learned alot of her friends have eating disorders AND I learned that she too was heading down that path.

When my son was younger, maybe 10 or so, I learned that he would watch his sister and her friends in her room. I learned he started smoking.

We have to nip these things in the BUTT! or bud! yaya bud! My mom snooped around my room. My grandma probably snooped around my moms room. And I'm sure most of you agree that  this is our right. Now, if I wrote this blog in 'my space'..oh god, I'd be getting some blasting.

btw, good morning!

I admit it. Shame on me. I don't know if its curiousity or just making sure she's on the right track. Dr. Phil says it's ok so I'm going with that. Is it a parental right? Is it ok to snoop in drawers, read their text messages, check them out at the mall, etc..

I will not listen in on my daughters phone conversations. Well, in all honesty, I do hear her talking. Just not the other side and I won't pick up the phone to eavesdrop. Thats bad. Snooping around her drawers? I've done that a couple of times. But it's not because I'm nosey. It's to make sure she's 'ok'. Does that make sense? We gotta keep our kids on track. Too much crap is out there and influences???? Lots of influences out there!

No. I do not want her snooping in my room. Finding some of the things she'd find in there, she'd die of embarressment! lol...

So, is it justifiable? Do dads do this?

Oh, I found a rubber in her backpack once cuz I was cleaning it out becuase she never did. She swore up and down it was 'her friends'. Uh huh....I told her it was NOT a good idea to keep a 'friends' rubber and at least her 'friend' was playing it safe. hmmmm

step on a crack, break your mama's back..

step on a line..break your mama's bine?

Have I been saying it wrong for 40 years?

What's..ooooooooooooh OMG i JUST GOT IT!!!!!

its SPINE!!!

derrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

WOW! my head is so clear now!

Has anyone heard from him? He's popular here and I know people get concerned when someone who is as popular as he doesn't 'check-in' with blogland. I've tried signing into his guestbook this morning but of course, guestbook isn't working cuz I can't see a 'submit' button.

PRINCE~!!!! you ok?

I know there's three leaders. Tried them all. They all cost. And that guy singing f-r-e-e-that spells free...creditreport.com baby...

it's not free either.

Isn't there someplace I can get a free credit report without having to give out a credit card number or being enrolled in something I have to cancel?

I started taking my mom there once a week about two months ago. I even play now and I'm not the youngest so it's ok.

There's Bingo almost every day of the week but last week we decided to try a different day. So we get our one packet each and find a seat. Open up our bag of treats and start munching while we wait for Bingo to start. I watch the old ladies come in with their gunny sacks filled up with all the different colors of dabbers. Dabbers. I called them ink squirters a couple months ago but I was quickly informed by the lady in back of me the proper name. Whatever. These old ladies (and men cuz I'm not going to be sexist), have 10 to 12 dabbers PLUS about 10-12 packets. I personally think if you're going to win, you can win just as well with one.

The bingo games start and my mom and I again are losing. Boring as hell. Zzzzzz So as to not fall asleep, I must entertain myself and my mother. While the caller is saying B-3, I look over on the floor and there is a blob of something. I say very loudy, 'look mom!  What's that? I think someone lost their double chin calling out Bingo!'. If you haven't seen the health commercials, never mind. The old couple in front of us looked behind us and I said 'yours?'...They hmphed and turned back around. A few minutes later the caller says 'Joe is walking around with double actions. If anyone needs anything just raise your hand'. Joe shuffles as he's about 110 so I raise my hand and Joe comes over and I say 'I need the caller to call out the right numbers so I can win at bingo!'. Joe, out of breath from the shuffling just looks at me baffled and shuffles away. Then my mom and I start enjoying our half eaten stacks again and here comes some old lady who rudely says 'you can't bring food in here. We don't want to lose our liquor license'. I said 'liquor in the front and poker in the rear?'. OUCH. That was it. We were asked to leave and again the couple in front turns around and the woman hmphs at me.  And just as she hmphs, my mom yells BINGO!'....we collected her money and were kindly shown the door. 

The end.

I just made some crab cakes. Got the recipe off of Food Network..paula deen. Mmmm excellent. Hubby loved them.  The cakes alone taste excellent but we want to make some sort of sauce to put on them. Something very mild. We tried bearnaise (Spelling off) but that is way too overpowering for crab cakes.

any suggestions? thanks!

Heard it on the news this morning. In Bagdad (is there an h in there), a man was found dead with a cougar next to him. Don't know about the cougar. Think it was still alive BUT...the man was naked AND he had a condom on. Hmmmmmmmmm now what do you think went on there?

Draw your own conclusions. I wonder who can come up with the most outlandish story? I'm going for the obvious. First sheep, now cougars. siiighhh

If  you get a bouqet of flowers and they aren't the flowers you like then you are finding bad in good and that is NOT good but bad and you have just turned something so good into bad. How bad is that? And if  you get a bouqet of flowers and the person giving them to you knows you are allergic to them and you sneeze all day long....well then, that is bad. The beautiful flowers have now been labeled and you stay away from them.

So, if you find bad in good you are the type of person who imo will never be satisifed no matter how hard someone tries becuase you are not satisfed with yourself.

So, if you find good in bad, you are the type of person who imo has an open mind to new things, is carefree, and takes some things for face value.

What does this all mean? Hell if I know. It's just a blog and if you wanna comment go for it and if you think this is a really bad blog then you will never be satified with what I have to say. hmph.

more coffee now. :)

In my pissed mood last night because my husband still smokes and he stinks, I decided it is time to get necessary papers in order in case of of one of our demises. Him smoking is just the push I need to FINALLY get this very important matter taken care of. But where do I start? Do I want a living will? Do I need to see a lawyer? Can I do it on-line and is it legal?? And yes, he sounds like the one who needs a will but we are both going to do this. I don't want to end up a widow and be totally oblivious to whats going to happen.

I wonder how many people keep saying they need to do this but haven't. I've been talking about doing this since my late 30's and now I'm almost 50. That's alot of smoke coming outta my a**! It is time! This is something that can no longer be put in the procrastination pile.

Who's waiting? Who's done it? Who has advice?

who who who.....

Where I live in Colorado, there are about 1% basketball fans. So who am I to share this wonderful news with?? Here I am :) Being from California, I should be a lakers fan but thats my hubbys choice, not mine. I want the Celtics all the way!! Lakers need to have a team 'de-throne' them. I like the lakers as individuals and they are a GREAT kickass team. Thats for sure butI like going for the underdog and it's been awhile since the Celtics have been on top. Since my favorite team in the whole world (warriors) are not around...it's

GO CELTICS!!!!!

so who's with me?? come on!!! who's with me??? step outta da box, go for the golden ticket! see willy wonka! come on! :)  happy friday all...(((group hug))) aaahh feel the love

I hear it all the time on the rock station and its an old song and I only remember a few lyrics..

and you give yourself away and you give yourself away

and you give and you give and you give yourself away...

and he also says with or without you..

ITS DRIVING ME CRAZY!!!!!!

is anyone familiar with the crystal skulls that were placed around the world and if they all come together, it's byebye?

nice thought for the morning don't ya think? :)