This is a continuation of the last post. I personally think it's a good subject as alot of us have kids.
I clean my daughters room. Alot. She's used to it now. I give her a couple of days to clean it and then I go in there and do a sweep. I find things. Mostly letters to me! I know she writes them when she's pissed off or upset. She talks about how I invade her privacy. How I don't trust her, etc.
Snooping for lack of a better word is a good thing for parents to do. It is our obligation to make sure where,what,who,when and why with our kids. Look at what they have to deal with! I learn alot about my daughter when I clean her room and I will continue to clean her room. I learn that she thought she was going on a date one Friday night but that night I just happened to tell her to stay home. She actually wasn't even upset. I learned alot of her friends have eating disorders AND I learned that she too was heading down that path.
When my son was younger, maybe 10 or so, I learned that he would watch his sister and her friends in her room. I learned he started smoking.
We have to nip these things in the BUTT! or bud! yaya bud! My mom snooped around my room. My grandma probably snooped around my moms room. And I'm sure most of you agree that this is our right. Now, if I wrote this blog in 'my space'..oh god, I'd be getting some blasting.
btw, good morning!