I love you daddy...forever and always.

Remembering a wonderful man...

I LOVE YOU DADDY!!!

This was my daddy. He died June 21st, 2008. I like to remember him at this weight, even though when he passed he only weighed 96 pounds. The wonderful and amazing Gregory L. Mitchell was born September 11th, 1951 in Newcomerstown, OH. He was a Vietnam Veteran who served 3 terms with courage and great focus. I seriously could go on and on about what a perfect father and husband he was. He was a fantastic provider, an incredibly patient listener, loyal, caring, and was SOOOO funny...he could've made Larry King laugh til he pissed his pants, lol! Daddy died of lung cancer. Please if you smoke...stop. Your life is worth so much more than the feeling of lighting up a cigarette. You can quit...seriously, people run marathons, get shot, lose limbs, give birth...if human beings can do all that, then you certainly can STOP A BAD HABIT!!!

Also, losing my best friend has made me realize that I'm going to get everything I want in life and more. He died without meeting some of his goals. He never owned a '67 GTO, never went to Tahiti, and never had a job he liked. His biggest goal was met though. He had told my mother when he first started dating her that all he really wanted out of life was to be loved. Well, he was most certainly LOVED TO THE FULLEST. I wanted to give him so much. I didn't have the chance...but I did give him all my love. I kept telling him that when got a job on MAD TV, I would buy him all the material things he desired. I didn't get the chance to give him grandchildren...I'm too young. He was taken from mama and I too soon.

I put some of his ashes in the coconut he got himself from Hawaii. He loved that silly thing. It has a picture of Santa surfing on the front...handpainted. I hollowed it out and funneled some of the ashes in there...then popped a cork in it. The rest will be sprinkled in the ocean the next time mama and I visit Hawaii. When I get married, the coconut will walk me down the isle. When I go to Tahiti, the coconut will go with me. When I buy a '67 GTO, the coconut will ride shotgun...and when I do my first show on MAD TV or SNL...I will reserve a seat front row for the coconut. My children will play with the coconut. I LOVE MY DADDY. HE WAS THE GREATEST MAN THE WORLD HAS EVER KNOWN!!!!!!  

R.I.P Daddy...you are really really REALLY missed.

pegonthe-bay
((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))) Reva! :) I know he would be proud of you in all that you do!
Jul-13-08 13:55:11 PDT Report this comment
revaflower
Thank you dearest pegster!!!
Jul-13-08 13:56:12 PDT Report this comment
a-hula-girl-at-heart
hey girl.....quite a most lovely beautiful post...you are blessed as your those who love you .... most beautiful indeed is a daughter's love... :o)
Jul-13-08 13:56:15 PDT Report this comment
bunny*witch*hollow
<<<<<<<<<<< TRES

(((((((((((((((((((((((REVA))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

your daddy is smiling!!! you are a wonderful daughter!!

i've missed you! so happy you're here :)
Jul-13-08 13:56:27 PDT Report this comment
cvr069
I'm sorry for your loss. I know your pain. I miss my Dad too...he died from Pancreatic Cancer in November of 2005 that I think stemmed from smoking. That's the one thing he just wouldn't give up. Just remember, your Daddy will always stay with you...I promise.
Jul-13-08 13:56:34 PDT Report this comment
dinnersreadyjayc
oh God, ur making me cry. I am so sorry for your loss. It is so hard to lose a parent, espcially at such a young age. My thouhghts and prayers go out to you and ur family.
Jul-13-08 13:57:28 PDT Report this comment
starry1s*treasures
(((((((HUGS))))))) I'm so sorry for your loss. He will always be watching over you, and he is so proud of you!
Jul-13-08 13:57:48 PDT Report this comment
sweetchevyangel
(((((Hugs))))) thru tears, I am certain he was so proud of you....(((HUGS)))) so sorry.
Jul-13-08 13:57:55 PDT Report this comment
revaflower
Thank you guys...posting again is taking a lot out of me I'm finding. All I want to do is sleep.
Jul-13-08 13:59:15 PDT Report this comment
a-hula-girl-at-heart
jeez...i can't even type right....(((hugs))) good to have you back .. ♥ ..
Jul-13-08 13:59:59 PDT Report this comment
mollycoddleyou
I'm sorry for the pain you're feeling in your loss, Reva. Your dad looks like a lovely man.
Jul-13-08 14:00:39 PDT Report this comment
bunny*witch*hollow
(((((((((REVA)))))))))))))))
Jul-13-08 14:01:00 PDT Report this comment
sharrrina40
Aw Babe. You are such a special girl! Your dad was sooo proud of you.We'll talk again soon, know youre in my thoughts always!
Jul-13-08 14:01:12 PDT Report this comment
cvr069
Everyone grieves in their own way. Don't let anyone tell you HOW to do that. Everything is still "fresh" in your case so be kind to yourself. Sleep if you have to. Cry, scream, laugh...you get the picture. Time makes it easier but it never goes away...I'm sorry.
Jul-13-08 14:03:10 PDT Report this comment
revaflower
<3...not going to comment...can't stop crying...hopefully I'll be better the next time I post, but OMG, I miss him so much...it really doesn't seem like he's really dead....everything I do and everything I see reminds me of him...I don't think I'll ever be able to watch the Food Network again
Jul-13-08 14:04:22 PDT Report this comment
dognosebakery
Our heartfelt gratitude for all your support, thoughts and prayers during our family's moment of bereavement.... Hugsssss Sweety
Jul-13-08 14:07:03 PDT Report this comment
cvr069
You will be okay, Reva. Your Daddy sits right next to you in your pain and when you are ready...you will feel him. He is happy and whole and whispering that he loves you. This I know for sure.
Jul-13-08 14:09:19 PDT Report this comment
a-hula-girl-at-heart
..... ♥ “The heart that truly loves never forgets.” ♥ .... peace <>< amiga... for you and yours ....
Jul-13-08 14:10:05 PDT Report this comment
revaflower
<3 Hula...you've been an amazing help....you too Peg and Shar!!! God bless everyone
Jul-13-08 14:11:11 PDT Report this comment
kandjsmom04
(((HUGS))) so sorry for your loss
Jul-13-08 14:15:35 PDT Report this comment
revaflower
Thank you SOOOOOOOOOOO much kandjs....for the flowers, for the card...for getting some of the bloggers together to wish me the best....WOW...I haven't felt like doing much, but believe me, a thank you note is on the way to a few of you!! Gosh, I have lots of blessings!
Jul-13-08 14:17:40 PDT Report this comment
pegonthe-bay
Just a call will do nicely! :)


oh and don't forget I want a seat next to the coconut! I'll be the coconuts protector! LOL
Jul-13-08 14:22:35 PDT Report this comment
gbayemporium
awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww
Jul-14-08 07:04:10 PDT Report this comment
gbayemporium
he couldn't have had a better daughter reva.
Jul-14-08 07:05:03 PDT Report this comment
revaflower
Thank you dearest gbay....<3
Jul-14-08 07:17:10 PDT Report this comment
blank6926
quack quack hugs
Jul-14-08 17:24:33 PDT Report this comment

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