Can you buy True Love on eBay? Part 7

Can you purchase truelove?
There are a number of women that seem to think so.  I am picking on women a little bit here because they are guilty of this little sin more than men, and that is only because men are usually the dominate bread winners.  I have seen a lot of women that talk about how they found a rich man and will assume they will live happily ever after because they don’t have to worry about money any more.  Now come on, really, when has money really brought you happiness?  Money is not happiness, all money does is allow you to have more free time then you would if you didn’t have it.  Instead of having to spend your day working to pay your bills, with money, you have the time to take the kids to the park and not worry about if you can pay the electric bill or not.

Time after time I have seen women will sacrifice their own happiness in pursuit of a rich guy.  The guy could be a total pig and unfaithful as they come but the wife is not willing to give up her fancy car and furs so she puts up with his cheating ways.  Now whose fault is it here, the girl or the guy?  She went into the deal with her blinders on and now after a small time the blinders came off and things just plain suck for her.  The next thing you know she is looking for a divorce attorney so she can take HALF of what he owns. 

I remember Eddie Murphy doing a standup routine about why he would never get married.  He kept saying it over and over that she would get HALF of everything he owns if he would ever get divorced.  Well it looks like his prophesy came true because his current wife of 12 years filed for divorce from him on in August of 2005.  She gave birth to 5 of his kids, you bet she is going to get half, and she deserves it.

Some friends of mine met some good looking girls in California on the beach in Malibu and the girls asked them what each one was driving?  One of my friends told the girls he was driving a Dodge Neon, and they walked past him to my other friend.  They asked my other friend what he was driving and he lied to them and said he was driving a Dodge Viper.  He ended up sleeping with one of the girls that night.  Now we all understand that this has nothing to do with truelove.  In this case the girls could have been standing on a corner selling their bodies and would have gotten the same result. 

How much different are the actions of these girls and those with women that try and to catch a rich guy.  Aren’t you still a prostitute?  Some women are willing to give up happiness and truelove for an easier workday.  Maybe they have lost all hope and think that truelove is something that can only be found in fairy tales.  Maybe their self esteem has sunk so low that they are near the bottom of the barrel and life is a just an old tired ride waiting to end.  My mother always told me that nothing in life comes easy.  If it is something that is worth anything, it is because you worked hard to get it.  Things given to you are just things and you will have no purpose for them and you will end up destroying them in some way or another.  I think she is right because relationships based on money will only lead to destruction.  You can not take someone else’s energy like the money they have and use it to your own benefit and feel good about it.  You’re stealing their energy for your own purpose.

I know and you know, truelove can not be bought.  If for a single moment that you really think so, you are fooling yourself to the point of insanity. 

End of Part Seven.