homesheba

I JUST HAD A CLOSE FRIEND DIE

I MET HER ABOUT 2-3 YEARS  AGO- ON LINE AND RIGHT OFF WE BECAME SUCH GREAT FRIENDS!

 IT WAS LIKE WE HAD ALWAYS KNOWN EACHOTHER.

 IT IS HER BIRTHDAY TOMARROW AND SHE WOULD HAVE BEEN 67 I THINK... SHE PASSED AWAY MONDAY.

 SHE HAD SOO MANY HEALTH PROBLEMS -BUT WAS SO STRONG I GUESS I THOUGHT SHE WOULD COME THRU THIS ONE ALSO.

BUT SHE COULDNT. SHE WAS JUST TOO TIRED I THINK FROM ALL THE PAIN SHE ALWAYS HAD.,

 A BIG PROBLEM IS PAIN PATIENTS DO NOT GET ADAQUATE PAIN MEDS IN THIS COUNTRY!!! GRRRR!!!

 SHE SUFFERED TERRIBLY ,BUT ALL HER SO CALLED DOCTORS WERE TOO AFRIAD THAT THEYED GET 'IN TROUBLE' FOR PERSCRIBING TOO MUCH.

 UNBELIEVABLE!! SO SHE SUFFERED ON PAIN JUNK.

 ANYWAY I DIGRESS.,.......................

 HER NAME WAS KAREN,

 AND SHE HAD THE LORD TO HELP HER THRU IT ALL THANK GOODNESS,

I SURE WILL MISS HER BUT I AM HAPPY SHE IS BETTER NOW

 AND THAT ILL SEE HER AGAIN SOMEDAY.

THE WEB MAY HAVE ITS BAD PART,

 BUT IT ALSO IS GOOD CAUSE I MET HER

 AND ALSO HAVE MET MANY NICE OTHER PEOPLE ON LINE HERE IN CYBER SPACE.:)

IT IS SO SAD TO LOOSE LOVED ONES, BUT IT IS GOOD THAT WE CAN MAKE NEW FRIENDS TO HELP WITH THE GRIEF.

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I am sorry you have lost a friend. I hope you feel some comfort in knowing she is no longer in pain. Peace be with you in this time of sadness.
Aug-23-07 02:35:17 PDT Report this comment
linannhargrove
I am very sorry for your loss. prayers for you and your friend. God bless you
Aug-23-07 02:35:42 PDT Report this comment
frodobagginskennedy
I am so sorry for your loss! She is only gone in body, her spirit walks beside you now free of pain and suffering. She will protect you in times of need and rest her hand on your shoulder in times of sarrow.


I argee with you in regards to Doctors being afraid to prescribe pain meds. I could tell you my story but that is for another time.

Please grieve openly for that is the way to heal
Aug-23-07 02:47:31 PDT Report this comment
myhomeisinheaven
Hello, we have never blogged together, having the chance to start a new friendship. I am so sorry for the loss of your dear friend Karen, it does indeed sound like she was in alot of pain. So tell me your friend, what did she like to do? How did you come to meet? Tell us the life if you are able.Celebrate Karen!
Wanda, here!
Aug-23-07 03:04:34 PDT Report this comment
tru_gritt02
im sorry you lost a friend. its so hard to lose someone you are close to. I lost a friend a couple years back.... he was very young and a very very sweet guy..... everyone loved him and we still miss him.
I agree with you when you say docs dont prescribe the right amount of meds..... a friend of mine got ALOT of painkillers for having an injured foot, but, when my mum went through all that trouble with back surgeries.... well.... the first time, they gave her MOTRIN, and all the other times they gave her codeine..... buncha bull.
Aug-23-07 03:28:07 PDT Report this comment
crazyjeans12000
I too am sorry to hear of your loss. Your friend has been lifted above all that pain now and she's in the best hands there are. May your thoughts be peaceful and God bless.
Aug-23-07 03:48:22 PDT Report this comment
classic_chloe
You have my condolences. It is so difficult to lose a dear friend & loved one. I will be thinking of you today and in the days to come. Here is a wonderful site--the INTENTION EXPERIMENT--www.theintentionexperiment.com-- where there are many discussions about healing & dealing with pain & such. Perhaps you may find some type of relief there.
I have lost my parents, and also my very best friends to painful illnesses. I also do hospice work, so I do know what you are experiencing. I wish I could tell you that it will all go away, darling.

With time, your aches may ease, just take comfort in knowing that YOU did the best you could--that is all any one of us can hope for.

As to the medication issue...here in the US, we have so many problems with the FDA, I don't even know where to begin.

You are in my heart, my thoughts and prayers.

Chloe
Aug-23-07 08:53:58 PDT Report this comment
shellgift
thanks to you all so very much.
i am happy to get to know each of you all here as well. GOD BLESS EACH OF YOU.:)
Aug-23-07 15:13:59 PDT Report this comment

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