Why is everyone affraid to give negative Negative feedback? Because there will inevitably be retaliation as I got. But, ask yourself this, does anyone really care about the feedback anyway - who looks.
Here's a person that wouldn't give me a way to pay him - scared to give out any details and finally he told me that he wasn't going to sell his silly little £20 item to me. Fine I thought, I told him to cancel the auction (because it's still legally binding) and relisty the item - I even would have accepted his negative feedback in that situation. But NO! I waited, mailed him several times asking him to cancel the auction and relist but nothing. I waited more and then gave him the negatives. So, perhaps I deserve the negatives back - who really cares!
So, Cheers mate...