TJ's Silent Blog!!! Where is my grape jelly????

Feeling Down!!!! part 2!!

I got some questions in how to handle.  I am not good when someone is angry.  I know as one of your advice is to wait but what if she is still raving in the blog!!  I know we all need to cool down from panic mode!!  But I never experience what is happening now with one of the blogger.  You can check my other blog.  She still saying things.  If I say something, she say something worse.  Now she said, ""I had several windows opening and doing many things at once". So we were reporting, you were writing your guide. We got it."  How can I make her understand that it was like about 7 minutes total in about 1 1/2 hours (total about 2 hours as I walk away for 30 mins)  I was working on reporting it.  Why do people feel they need to keep saying it and make you feel more down?

I just don't understand why and not understanding. I wish she would drop it!  Is there anyway to block until she calm down??? 

I got a lot to learn about the real world.  Being deaf protect me from those thing but when it come up, I don't know what to do or how to defend myself.  And sometime, I just don't understand why people say that over and over when I didn't feel like I did wrong. 

I know I need to breathe, and calm down.  But just want to know how to handle the remark I still get.  I got a new one since I wrote the feeling down part 1!

And if you (you know who you are) reading this as I know you read that I am feeling down!  Please stop this raving.  I know you are upset! I am sorry that you feel like this but realize I was reporting and did not spend 1 1/2 hours writing a review.  Everyone do things differently in how they organize their thought and how they work.  I worked better with different windows opening and flipping as I go and HONESTLY I only went to write one or 2 lines at a time as thought came to me in 1 1/2 hours (actually 2hours if you count stepping away). I did it because my heart wanted to warn people and I didn't want them to be a victim.  My heart was in right place.  I know you disagree, and it okay to disagree but please stop saying thing on blog about it. 

rebel5619
just ignore the comments and u can delete them on your posts
be the better person and do not respond
u can always do what I do, cuss em out in ASL <g>
Mar-28-07 16:44:50 PDT Report this comment
rebel5619
see you are laughing, that is the spirit my friend :)
Mar-28-07 16:45:57 PDT Report this comment
oldbarntradingco
You can drop it any time you like.
Mar-28-07 16:46:06 PDT Report this comment
bizzy*beez
I understand better what you were doing, you were multi-tasking, and I'm really glad that all of those listings got pulled in time.
Mar-28-07 16:46:10 PDT Report this comment
shartey
I would let this thing drop...go on with your life...read a good book and forget this stuff.

You did the best you could do, and nothing more is expected from any human being.
Mar-28-07 16:46:12 PDT Report this comment
rebel5619
my hubby has learned quick when I am mad, he has picked up on those signs <g>
Mar-28-07 16:47:23 PDT Report this comment
tru_gritt02
i have no idea what you are talkin bout but..... hi. :)
Mar-28-07 16:47:35 PDT Report this comment
ruprightracing44
I would just ignore them you did your part by reporting what you did and by writing the guide you may have helped others to keep the jerks from taking over their accounts.
Mar-28-07 16:47:53 PDT Report this comment
tjsttng
I guess signing ASL is better when mad cuz it is quiet!!! LOL!!! Everybody want to know those sign!!
Mar-28-07 16:49:57 PDT Report this comment
rebel5619
oh yeah, except my hubby he knows all the cuss words but the neighbors don't
Mar-28-07 16:50:56 PDT Report this comment
tjsttng
Yeah!!! ASL can be LOUD!!!! But in a different way!!!! You can tell when a deaf is mad!!! BIG SIGN & FAST!!! But it is better cuz if you want to be as "LOUD" as you want without attracting other!!
Mar-28-07 16:52:27 PDT Report this comment
rebel5619
that is for sure!!!!
Mar-28-07 16:52:59 PDT Report this comment
rebel5619
I will never forget my first time at a deaf club meeting. I wanted lemonade but asked for lesbian instead. they never let me forget that either <g>
Mar-28-07 16:54:13 PDT Report this comment
zoobazu
Hugs and kisses to you. It sounds like you might need it! I had a rough day yesterday and these wonderful bloggers helped me! Hang in there! Maybe someone else is just having a bad day too! Don't take it personally. Hang in there! :-)
Mar-28-07 16:54:17 PDT Report this comment
rebel5619
ditto native you are so sweet!!!!
Mar-28-07 16:55:12 PDT Report this comment
go-green-jeans
Noone had to help you report , if they did then they did it because they wanted to and thats just rediculus for others to get Ticked off for doing what they chose to do.
Sounds like someone who helped was wondering WHY they were helping and had regrets about the time invested before it was done.
BIG DEAL if you wrote a guide ...Eat cake and be merry...I could see them getting mad if you were the one hacking accounts.
Childish in my opinion.
Mar-28-07 16:55:12 PDT Report this comment
rebel5619
:) ussearch
Mar-28-07 16:55:50 PDT Report this comment
tjsttng
oh no!!! You had it in a wrong place!!! Common mistake!! Be sure you do Lunch right!! That can be easily look like lebisan too!
Mar-28-07 16:55:57 PDT Report this comment
rebel5619
LOL I know that now!!!!!!
I went to a bar with a girlfriend and we were signing about a cute guy on the other end of the bar, come to find out he was deaf :) that was embarrassing
hope u feel better now
Mar-28-07 16:57:06 PDT Report this comment
tjsttng
Thank you all!!! I was feeling that maybe everyone thought I was wrong but I wasn't and I did what was right and I knew I did was right but I just hate to think it was me! But it is not me!! Thank for cheering me up!
Mar-28-07 16:57:26 PDT Report this comment
healthyjerky4u
Ignore it and delete them...It's that simple...

You can't please everyone here on the blogs and in life...Your a good person for trying to help...Some people just don't get it. Most people have lives OUTSIDE of eBay blogs and others don't understand that all of the attention can't go to them...

Life is rough...you 'll be fine :0)
Mar-28-07 16:57:29 PDT Report this comment
rebel5619
glad u feel better, I am here for you as well as the others, you have friends here
Mar-28-07 16:57:53 PDT Report this comment
go-green-jeans
Healthy above is SOOOO right , If you spend your time trying to make everyone here happy .....Sheeesh your nerves will be wrecked and it would probably take more than one of you anyway : )
Have a great evening !
Mar-28-07 16:59:29 PDT Report this comment

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