TJ's Silent Blog!!! Where is my grape jelly????

I am feeling down!!!

This not been a good day for me.  I just made an enemy on blog without meaning to!!  I did something that upset her and it was not my intention.  I was just trying to help another ebayer when her account was hijacked!!!  I worked on it for about 1 1/2 hours reporting, letting other blog fellow know about it so they can report too.  I was in contact with the seller and I managed to contact some of the bidder to let them know not to pay cuz it been hijacked.  I could have done more but ebay put stop to it.  I think you can only do certain limit of it.  As I was reporting each one, I saw some clue I never saw, so I opened another window to write guide.  I went back and forth and it took like less than 1 minute to type one line.  I have a lot on my mind so when thought come, I wanted to type it right away and then go back later.  I can forget when there a lot going on in my life.  The last one I posted on blog as another blog recommend me to keep posting it again and again as she had the direction and better suggestion then me.  I did that as soon as I see it go out of the blog "window", I did another one. 

 I was reporting, posting blog, responsing, review when saw some clue, contacting with seller and the bidder too.  I did all that in about 1 1/2 hours and I kept thinking, Wow, I am so thankful for all who help me last week when I was hijacked.  This was not easy work & my back was killing me but I didn't stop cuz I know how she feel.  Also, I wanted to warn buyer in how to know it was fraud listing.  I knew once that listing is gone, I will not see some of clue or remember as clearly as that time.  I felt buyer needed to be protected cuz it wasn't just seller who was a victim but the buyer too.  I didn't want them to lose about $2,000 as some auction was going.  It just happen after reading the last blog message, my niece wanted my attention and she needed me.  I cannot type & do something on computer and niece at the same time.  Hearing people can have them in lap and talk to them by listening while typing.  I cannot!  I must look at her face to read lip in what she want and 2 years old are not easy to read lip.  I miss the next message by 5 minutes.  I didn't realize I was gone about 30 minutes but according to the last one I read and what I post again after I came back was about 30 minutes.  Time flew by but I didn't forget.  I had all the windows open to keep checking. 

Now one of the blogger is upset at me and she wrote, "I reported over 100 listings for this "begging" person just so she could get review exposure. I'm a little upset right now."  I am really sorry that I upset her.  I didn't know I was going to walk away and I really felt I needed to write a review to warn buyer in how to know if fraud auction.  I started it and I submitted it 1 1/2 hours later.  I added as I go and it only took less than 1 minute to add one lines as I saw something.  I didn't do it for exposure.  I did it to warn someone.  I was a victim myself last week.  I remember how it feel and it does not feel good.  I was thinking what if the buyer pay for it and lose their money.  They needed to be warn and to know if it is a fraud auction.  I was feeling for the buyer who may lose their money.  I wanted to help.  I did tell them I wrote the review so that they can look at it and give me advice and I was shocked to hear that I upset someone.  Now she still posting some comment and her mind is stuck on my review cuz I posted that we did it!!!!  We help her and all the auction had been remove.  She ending up posting that I did it and not we because I was the one that did the review.  It had nothing to do with the review.  It had to do that we all help to report it. 

I also upset my sister cuz I was paying attention to the blog after one blogger was upset and not listening to her.  I can please anybody but I feel like when someone is upset, they have to say thing in post.  I don't understand that.  It is not about revenge and also people have different opinion.  I didn't see anything wrong in what I did but someone did and I will respect that but need to give it up.  Just say it once and that should be enough! Also, things can happen without knowing it will happen like I stepped away for about 30 minute cuz of my niece.

So feeling down and I just can't believe I jump in to help someone and get everyone involve and thinking wow I am so thankful for the blogger to helping me cuz this is a lot of work and suddenly then someone upset and so far my last 3 blog she said something. 

aswesow
Your an angel, be happy!
Mar-28-07 16:15:01 PDT Report this comment
toppppers
your a star cheer up :0)
Mar-28-07 16:18:44 PDT Report this comment
rebel5619
you have to go by your heart and do what you feel is right, you did not make anyone do anything they did not want to do.
Mar-28-07 16:19:53 PDT Report this comment
tjsttng
Thank!!! It was my heart that wanted to do that review to warn and do so many things at once!!!
Mar-28-07 16:20:42 PDT Report this comment
crazy_mooz
Have you try to talk with the person you where helping?
Got to remember they are in a panic mode right now.
You and I both went though the hijacke last week.
It took me a all day to calm down and think clear.
Give it a little time then try to talk with them
Mar-28-07 16:21:05 PDT Report this comment
chapsrosestxk
hang in there
Hugs and blessings
Mar-28-07 16:21:40 PDT Report this comment
healthyjerky4u
Ignore it and delete them...It's that simple...

You can't please everyone here on the blogs and in life...Your a good person for trying to help...Some people just don't get it. Most people have lives OUTSIDE of eBay blogs and others don't understand that all of the attention can't go to them...

Life is rough...you 'll be fine :0)
Mar-28-07 16:22:06 PDT Report this comment
tjsttng
ok, I just hate to think someone is upset with me and have enemy!!! I will wait!
Mar-28-07 16:22:10 PDT Report this comment
rebel5619
mooz you are sooo sweet, a really nice sincere person !!!
Mar-28-07 16:22:10 PDT Report this comment
rebel5619
deep breath, smile it will get better :)
Mar-28-07 16:22:51 PDT Report this comment
rivera8821
what you did was nice to do dont let it get to you just be you sweet
Mar-28-07 16:27:31 PDT Report this comment
crazy_mooz
thank you
Mar-28-07 16:49:14 PDT Report this comment

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