TJ's Silent Blog!!! Where is my grape jelly????

I am sooooo angry!!!!!

At my niece's birthday party, my sister invited me to her house for dinner and she asked me to get Disney movie for Charissa thru netflix.  We decided on Cinderalla as she never see that and that what she want to be for Halloween.  So I got it and I am holding on to it instead of watching it immediately. 

I get an instant message from my brother in law saying I can't come over until I get my head treated.  Apparently, they think my brother's kids where the party were have head lice.  There a very bad case of head lice since Kayla (birthday girl) was born and it was on-going problem for about 2 1/2 years.  I been treated so many times.  My brother never tell us about it.  I remember how bad the first time I got it from them. I didn't know I had them for about a month due to I never itch until one day I complained to my ex-mother-in-law that my neck is very itchy and she said it is red where I am itchy and teased me I have fleas.  I discovered the next day that I had lice when I pulled out a bug and I ran into the bathroom and got under the light and I saw how bad it was.  I got it 2 more times and I told my brother the next time, he doesn't announce that they kids have it again, I will be sending a bills for those treatment since it is sooo expensive.  I have cried every single times.  I remember I had no money for it and my dad had to buy it. They been headlice free for about a year now!!!  Which is awesome for them and for me. Headlice love my hairs due to being very fine.

Anyway, I have my dad called my brother to confirm if the kids have lice because my sister and brother in law can be such a jerk!  My brother said they do not have them and the school always check for them.  My dad said what about their cousin Jade.  I told them no because she didn't itch at all.  My dad was like she could have gotten it from pre-school and not Mike's kid. 

I am furious because I get instant message from my brother in law and said I cannot come over until I have my hair treated.  I am holding on Cinderalla and they want me to go out and get expensive shampoo that I most likely don't have.  I will have my head check.  I told him and my sister, I will not buy them unless I have too.  I told them you can pay for it if you want me to go thru it.  How dare them tell me that I can't come over until my hair is treated.  I think I have lice.  My brother in law is going to Horror night at Universal and so on.  Sometimes I just hate them!  They want me to treat my hair due to that there was a birthday party at my brother's house.  I am sooo angry at them. 

mypinkmimosa
To prevent reinfestations rinse your hair in vinegar with each washing. Here in the south we learn the hard way all about school kids and this critter. No big deal.
Sep-27-07 17:57:29 PDT Report this comment
yourlilamy
I'm speechless! My daughter had "headlights" once, she got them from Girl Scout Daycamp! She had lonng hair. I had such trouble getting them out!
Sep-27-07 17:59:06 PDT Report this comment
tjsttng
Yep, They don't understand it is not just my brother's kids. Charissa hang out with pre school and goes to ss. Right now, this is time for head lice and I will rinse in vinegar tonite. I won't get RID unless I need too!!! WAY TOO EXPENSIVE!!!
Sep-27-07 17:59:11 PDT Report this comment
tjsttng
It is hard in my hair too!!! But since the first time I got from my brother's kids (this was my 3rd times and 4th time being treated) I actually learned how to feel it and did it myself.

Truth is I feel like crying because I am the best person to look thru hair. I hate it!! So that means everyone including aunt, cousin, mom, grandma, sister and nieces will be coming to me for a head check. AHHHHHH!!!!
Sep-27-07 18:01:09 PDT Report this comment
yourlilamy
OH, my head itches!!!
Sep-27-07 18:01:10 PDT Report this comment
tjsttng
LOL!!! Amazing when you think, itch!! OH NO DO I HAVE IT?? I am going to look for that headlice comb!!!!

But really my brother in law and sister is very paranoid! They accuse me for sending Heather (sister) to the hospital for brochotsis and said I gave it to her. I told them, that I had a baterica and it is not cautigous as my dr told me. She said from sinus!!
Sep-27-07 18:02:58 PDT Report this comment
yourlilamy
I am so sorry you're going through this tj! Things will get better!
Sep-27-07 18:04:55 PDT Report this comment
seetiggerbounce
Hello - Howdy - Hi !
Sep-27-07 18:05:55 PDT Report this comment
tjsttng
I am just angry at my sister right now!! For uninviting me. I can come over if my hair is treated. She asked me to get a movie for Charissa which I really didn't want to do as I am paying for it and wanted something to watch myself on weekend. And now to find out I got it for nothing and pay for it.
Sep-27-07 18:06:31 PDT Report this comment
tjsttng
Do you think it just plain rude to assume that I have it and my brother said none of the kids have it. And say you can't come over after inviting me until I get my hair treated with RID!!

I am not itchy!! And I refuse to buy it unless I do have it!
Sep-27-07 18:07:41 PDT Report this comment
whiteshastadaisy
Awww, tj, it'll be okay. I wouldn't like it if someone said I had to be treated first. I just wouldn't go over there if it were me because I wouldn't treat my head if it wasn't needed.
Sep-27-07 18:15:10 PDT Report this comment
ramona43
OK, my family had the nasty little critters about 5 yrs ago when I invited a child to spend the night and had NO idea she had lice. I found a product called Not Nice to Lice and it works the first time out. What it does is eats the ectoskeleton and they are history. The shampoo drys out the hair but at least the critters are gone.
Sep-27-07 18:15:33 PDT Report this comment
donnab19520
scratch...scratch...scratch...
Sep-27-07 18:57:07 PDT Report this comment

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