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I wanted to reply to regarding phobias!!!

Posted Jun-30-07 22:11:05 PDT

I am going to do my own posting as my comment will be deleted.

I am sorry that you feel that way but when I read back in the history, it really appear that you were rude to her!!!  Phobia is something serious.  Also, you never once said sorry to her, you continue to increase and make fun of her phobia.  It is nothing to be laugh at.  I know what phobia can do and I have one that I will refuse to tell but thankfully, I am over it now. 

As for deleting comment, my recommendation is leave it.  Because if you feel like you are the victim then you have nothing to worry about deleting the comment.  If you are deleting comment then it make me feel that you have something to hide and want people to pity you. 

Right now, I feel sorry for the person you victimize.  You continue to attack her by adding a new post saying come look at my bird.  And then you say oh poor me someone said something awful about me and you have them looking at poor you.  I NEVER HEARD YOU SAID SORRY TO HER! 

This is excaltly what my mom does.  It is always poor her.  I am amazed how she can make something about me to become her.  Really, I think you need to say sorry because your last posting show that you still not sorry and still thinking of yourself.  Sound harsh what I said but I live with someone who can't even say I am wrong and I am sorry it become you wrong me and it is always someone else fault.

So you made a mistake and realize it and didn't know that these things exist.  Then your posting should have said I'm sorry!!!  Not poor me!!! 

No comment will be deleted here!!!  You may all voice your opinion.  I want blogger to see all point of view and not just the one I want.

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iiapco
it drives me nuts when the OP is allowed to delete other peoples comments. the only person that should be allowed to delete it is the person that wrote it.

people use it to hide when they don't want to accept the fact that other people have opinions. and those opinions may be different than what they think
Jun-30-07 22:15:48 PDT Report this comment
wysecw
tj I cannot tell you at this moment how much i respect you.
Jun-30-07 22:16:25 PDT Report this comment
tjsttng
That is right and it can make them appears they are right. It just drive me crazy when I read something that was there and suddenly realize they delete cuz not agree. It make me feel like they have something to hide.
Jun-30-07 22:17:22 PDT Report this comment
tjsttng
thank - wysecw
Jun-30-07 22:17:42 PDT Report this comment
wysecw
if i may, i would like to state something....I normally don't get involved in the mess. I said my peace and I stand by it. As far as I am concerned, it's over. I have begun to blog from the more posts link. BUT..I don't like mean people and I am not going to say it will never happen again. no apologies here. I enjoy all of you hugely and look forward to sharing with you.
Jun-30-07 22:22:03 PDT Report this comment
twinight1
It's senseless attacks like that, that make bloggers uncomfortable about posting anything about anything. I was here for the aftermath, so by the time I read the post, it was already cleaned up. It's all the after posts that have made my mind up for me..The blogger being attacked has never posted anything but kindness, and I agree, the deleting of messages that a person disagrees with is sad.
Jun-30-07 22:23:24 PDT Report this comment
wysecw
well, my deleted comments were as follows:
methinks thou dost protest too much
and
methinks thou dost owe her an apology imo
Jun-30-07 22:25:13 PDT Report this comment
tjsttng
Yes it is sad that message is being deleted. I hate it when someone say you don't know the whole story and to do the research and it is the very person who say it and been deleting comment he/she disagree and so you never really have the whole story.
Jun-30-07 22:25:31 PDT Report this comment
tjsttng
That why I created this as I know my comment will be deleted!
Jun-30-07 22:25:56 PDT Report this comment
twinight1
Just for the record....when I was very young, I had a terrible phobia of birds as well...
Jun-30-07 22:26:21 PDT Report this comment
stylesbyshilo
What you don't know is that this person has been leaving rude comments on my blog for days. If this person really had that phobia, why bother to come view the post? People with phobias avoid their phobia; they don't deliberately expose themselves to it. I know for a fact this person does not have this phobia because for several days this person has been leaving nasty comments. Had this person actually had this phobia they would have immediately left my blog and never even taken the time to leave me comments. And then to come back to my blog after claiming to have this phobia only to make more comments. Do you see a pattern here? I surely do. Something smells. Had this person really had a phobia why leave me comments for several days before, then leave me comments today saying my poetry is evil and by the way, they have a bird phobia. See what I mean?
Jun-30-07 22:26:49 PDT Report this comment
tjsttng
Yeah, I had some phobia when little and gotten over and even had one for 3 years and just 3 months ago that phobia was gone!!!! YIPEE!!! Took a lot of hard work to overcome it.
Jun-30-07 22:27:22 PDT Report this comment
stylesbyshilo
You judge me after being bashed for days by this person and you believe their bogus phobia without hearing all the facts.
Jun-30-07 22:28:08 PDT Report this comment
tjsttng
The problem is that you are the only one that see it but us. If it is really true, why did you delete her comment?
Jun-30-07 22:28:20 PDT Report this comment
stylesbyshilo
I have phobias too and I don't deliberately expose myself to them. The title to my post made it clear what it was about. Had this person had the phobia they would have avoided it and would have never taken the time to type comments. I know all about phobias. This is a sham.
Jun-30-07 22:30:03 PDT Report this comment
stylesbyshilo
Because it is my blog and I am sick of negativity. I don't go to other's blogs and insult them and if anyone insults me for no reason then I delete them. That is my right. But my friends saw the comments. They let me know when they read my posts and I go in and delete them. Mule and his gang often bash me and quite frankly, I'm sick of it. I want to have fun and seeing nasty comments in my blog is not what I like. Do you like them in your blog?
Jun-30-07 22:33:09 PDT Report this comment
stylesbyshilo
Have a great evening!
Jun-30-07 22:35:32 PDT Report this comment
twinight1
I do find it interesting that you feel qualified to determine the validity of someone else's fears...I'm sorry, from what I've read,I think you do owe her an apoligy...but thats between you and her
Jun-30-07 22:35:37 PDT Report this comment
tjsttng
It happen and I even had a posting that someone said about me. But it is the real world so there is nothing I can do about it. But if it is about me and they are being mean. I will want other to see it so that they can know the whole story. I only see part of what is happening.
Jun-30-07 22:37:03 PDT Report this comment
darlenedobbins
I don't know what going on and don't want to, but you arn't the only one that has been bashed by mule. so hang in there
Jun-30-07 22:45:17 PDT Report this comment
observations-of-life
Tjs,.I am really proud of you for your stand for decency and human compassion.I see Christian darleendobbins again talking smack,but i am an athiest and I don't turn the other cheek.
Jun-30-07 22:52:40 PDT Report this comment
observations-of-life
http://blogs.ebay.com/stylesbyshilo/entry/Regarding-phobias/_W0QQidZ203823016

I see in styles new ramblings and rants on your's and her's last post on phobias a new sense of true paranoia,seeing people out to get her and joining forces to hunt her down.This is getting worse by the day and if anyone is her close friend,read her writings and help her to seek professional help.This is not an attack but an educated observation
Jun-30-07 23:05:52 PDT Report this comment
sweet_jalapena
it's a good post, tj...
may I add something which I stated about it in a related discussion here:

http://blogs.ebay.com/muledaddy357/entry/_W0QQcommentsyncidZ270109017QQidZ269886017

JALAPENA WROTE:
"hhmm... well i went there and read those two posts to which you refer me, and frankly, they are a bit filled with, i dunno, let's call it 'sickness' for lack of a better word which wouldn't offend others...

Just more of the same old crapola... she says she "can't stop writing about you," yet YOU are harassing her... someone is following her around leaving nasty comments on her Posts, but she conveniently Deleted them... You and I have 'attacked' her on her Posts - - but she conveniently deleted the attacks... We ("me" even!) cooked up some scheme to have others go over there and harass her, but as always, she is the one who seems to be doing all of the harassing??... She is a poor victim and everyone is picking on her (again) and she proclaims a Bill of Rights for her Blog to be drama free - - except for the drama SHE generates, obviously, and to anyone with a set of eyes...

honestly Larry, i'm getting the idea that there ARE some real nuts running around here, and that she is somewhere near the top of that basket... and I gotta tell you too, some of it has a bit of Rod Serling to it, i mean - - spooooky... seriously, am I kidding?...

Jul-01-07 03:09:26 PDT
Jul-01-07 04:15:39 PDT Report this comment
sweet_jalapena
...or like look at this, she says she doesn't go to others blogs and say crap - - yet it must be my eyes, but isn't that her up above ranting away?... (i dunno, it must all be some dream or something? a mirage maybe?)...

(Twilight Zone theme playing in background)... *:
Jul-01-07 04:22:05 PDT Report this comment
sweet_jalapena
oh wait, wait - - i should have said Alfred Hitchcock instead ('birds')... LOL, sorry, couldn't help the last... *: )

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Jul-01-07 04:26:30 PDT Report this comment
love_beyond_reason
why is it ok for people to leave a rude comment on anothers blog?? this is a bully mentality. if you want to say something rude do it on your own blog! as for deleting rude negative comments, its the person who created the blogs right to decide if the comments belong or not. thats why i titled my blog IF YOU DONT LIKE WHAT I SAY KISS MY (_!_) AND GET THE HE!! OUT!

i cant believe that someone has the attitude that rude comments on anothers blog is ok. jmo!
Jul-01-07 11:24:00 PDT Report this comment

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