TJ's Silent Blog!!! Where is my grape jelly????

Sometimes, I am surprised what people ask me.

Several of my auctions ended with a bid yesterday.  One person had paid and I always make sure I read the paypal to see if there is any message for me.  I was surprised to see this

Note: Please let me know when my item has been shipped, please leave positive feedback right away, I will do the same for you right back when I get my cream.  Thank You!

I do not leave feedback first since I have been burned and ebay's advice to me was to leave afterward.  I also check to see their feedback and there doesn't seem to be any problem and she is also a seller so that surprise me further that I got this message.  I will not be changing the way I leave feedback as I remember the nightmare I went thru with scammer and I couldn't warn.  I think there is certain items that seller need to leave feedback afterward because buyer tend to scam in certain area.  The one I got scammed over and over actually have a pattern!!!  I cannot goes thru that again and keep losing my money or the red negative when I left green positive.  Plus there that performance thing going on and I still like to be able to sell. 

Better goes!!!  Got to get to work.  Be on in about 45 minutes.

kiriyamabattleroyale
Dont you just love them when they call the shots, its your business so do what you normally do
Aug-29-07 02:46:09 PDT Report this comment
hottonkiss
Yep I gotta get to work soon too! Have a good day!
Aug-29-07 02:47:40 PDT Report this comment
tru_gritt02
i would send them a little message in their ebay inbox.
"thank you for your message. your item has been shipped. please note that fb is left for all my customers when the transaction is finished."
Aug-29-07 03:42:26 PDT Report this comment
jcarolek
I get these all the time lately. I do leave feedback first so I just pop them a note thanking them for their payment and letting them know that I will leave feedback as soon as I print there label. If your policy is to leave it after received notification they have received their item, I'd just state that. DOn't be bullied into changing your policies.
Aug-29-07 04:09:42 PDT Report this comment
stefunnyrose
I simply put it, when we ar both pleased with our transaction and you leave feedback I would love to exchange positive feedback. Or someting like that...sorry it is too early here 4 AM. Good Luck
Aug-29-07 04:24:11 PDT Report this comment
catherineh05
I always wait until they have put feedback in. If you put positive first and they put negative, then there's nothing you can do.
Aug-29-07 04:31:15 PDT Report this comment

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