I am going to make up an example.
This is couple people who don't have a lot of friend and they are nice but just different personality. Some people prefer just few close friend.
There is another group and there is many people and these people enjoy having social and really don't require close friends and just like hanging out with people.
The Person A with few friends or no friend made a decision to get a new car and suddenly other people told him that is an ugly car and you made the wrong decision to get that car and basically pulling them down.
Now Person B from "popular" group get a new car and have got a new car in exalt same color and brand and style than the Person A. But people say "WOW, nice car!! AWEsome!! It is beautiful" and they go out and buy themselves one too!!
Now what is the difference between Person A and Person B?
What is the difference between Person A's car and Person B's car?
I recently talk to another teacher in that is life where people choose who can do something and who can't.
This really happened to me. When I was in 8th grade, one popular girl came to me and said, "You shouldn't be wearing this clothes because you are not preppy enough." SO what!! I brought it because it was comfortabe and I like it!