TJ's Silent Blog!!! Yes, I know I am strong-willed!!!!

*shaking heads*

I was catching up in my reading and cannot believe that people can be such a bully and calling other names.

 

Yesterday, we had a talk with my 3 years old cousin who have lastly been so nasty.  She has been calling people name and so on.  We tried to pinpoint it.  And we decided that she cannot watch Hannah Montona, High School Musical and other Disney Show unless an adult is watching her so we can say, that girl's behavior is bad.  A 3 years old is not going to understand the difference of which is acceptable and unacceptable behavior.  We have asked her why she want to say cruel things to other and she said "I don't know" Then we asked is mommy mean?? No, Is daddy mean??  No,  Is cousin TJ mean? No, Is Hannah Montana mean??  Yes!!!  We had to examined the TV show to pinpoint it. 

Now, here is my questions what do you get out of it by saying mean things to other.  My 3 years old cousin can easily pick up from TV.  If your answer is "I don't know" then it time to examine why you do it. 

You all have permission to slap me when I do name calling or point out because really it need to stop!!!  My aunt is trying hard to stop this bulliness that is coming out of her 3 years old.  So no more Hannah Montona and other TV show without her there until she understand acceptable or unacceptable behavior.

darlenedobbins
You must have read the same post that I did. I just don't understand why some people are so mean and others play along like weak sheep. Someday it will carch up with them.
Jul-06-08 08:47:25 PDT Report this comment
lucky3boyz
I feel for you. Tv is such a hard thing for kids, even some of the cartoons are not what they should be.
Jul-06-08 08:48:07 PDT Report this comment
tjsttng
I couldn't believe how cruel and just yesterday my aunt and I tried to figure out why my 3 years old is being nasty lastly!!

She had to asked her is mommy mean? Cuz she kept thinking if it is from copying me, then I got a lot to talk to God about. But she said it is not mommy but from TV.
Jul-06-08 08:49:06 PDT Report this comment
tjsttng
Now aunt is monitoring and plus she said what may be worst is kid is out of school so they use older kid TV show on Disney now and she hoping when she start dance she learned to share and be nice and not bully.
Jul-06-08 08:50:09 PDT Report this comment
tjsttng
Darlene - you are being brave to stand up and ignore. I need to do that more often but I am pissed when someone bully against someone who I care.
Jul-06-08 08:51:27 PDT Report this comment
veruka_dolls
sitcoms have laugh tracks. And its 'funny' when you say something that in real life might earn ya a punch in the mouth.. Yep, sitcoms are no place to pick up social skills, disney kid-theme or no.
Jul-06-08 08:54:13 PDT Report this comment
blbaird725
Agreed, most of those shows are not for three year olds........or anyone under about ten or so
Jul-06-08 09:01:40 PDT Report this comment
observations-of-life
Consider the source folks,the most miserable make the most noise.
Jul-06-08 12:48:14 PDT Report this comment

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